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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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Honestly at this point I think that's the only option. Everybody here is encouraging me to confess and they have compelling arguments. Seems I can't run from this, it's a part of me and I should accep...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
1 points

I'm also in the same situation. I got to college, workout regularly, and have an above average physique. Yet, I struggle speaking with girls and have never been in any relationships. But I don't thin...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation+2 more
postr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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Does life get better?

Does life get better? Im now 20 years old and i stutter servierley and i moved to a new city and i feel so alone. I dont want to be a bother to thoose around me so i dont ask to hang with the few frie...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
1 points

You should really look within and find a way to come to terms with this. There are ways to improve, but it does not go away. That's just how it is. People are getting offended because you're in here ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
1 points

Unlike you, I’ve been that person and it’s made me stronger. Your fiancé sure is unlucky. You’re a vile person....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
1 points

And people who stammer can’t be mentally strong? If anything they’re stronger than the average person who’s fluent....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
1 points

Yes , I should have included mentally growing out of it . Would you like the fact if several kids out there bully your stammering offspring ? I would have seen my partner struggling with this in schoo...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeHelplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 21, 2023
1 points

Tips to improve stuttering according to the research study: "A perspective on stuttering: feeling a loss of control" (apply socratic questioning; build tolerance for sensing a loss of control during a feared word; work on the struggle of coping with a loss of control of the speech mechanism)

Tips to improve stuttering according to the research study: "A perspective on stuttering: feeling a loss of control" (apply socratic questioning; build tolerance for sensing a loss of control during a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringLoss of ControlHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2023
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I think most of us have done this. I'm telling you from experience, one day you will push yourself out of your comfort zone. It's difficult not to feel shame and regret by making a choice based on fea...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2023
1 points

The more time, attention and nerves you devote to your stuttering, the worse it gets, it's a paradox. Try to be less reflective about it. Yes, it's awful, but you have to live with it. This should bec...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterOct 14, 2023
1 points

Helpless

Helpless I honestly feel so helpless. My stuttering has gotten so much worse, whether it be individual or in social situations. I was in speech therapy before but I don’t think had much of an impact. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2023
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You reminded me of my graduation project presentation. I made 95% of the work with a lazy colleague and when I began to present it I just stuttered on every single word so as a result my friend took o...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencySchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterOct 11, 2023
1 points

Experience

Experience Attended an interview. They were highly impressed, never once stumbled on words or experienced speech blocks. I was unusually my usual confident self, related my experience in my career (ev...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2023
1 points

I think you should let the teacher know before the presentation that you are nervous because you stutter. Then do your presentation, speak your part. If it goes well then great! If it completely tanks...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeDisclosure & Telling OthersHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2023
1 points

Firstly, if you’re suicidal you should talk to somebody, anybody. It could be your parents, friends, teachers, counselors, and therapists. Mental health is no joke. I think you should stop thinking w...

Emotional Experience
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2023
1 points

All people here sugarcoating it, but in reality stutter is of course massive disadvantage. We might die alone even if we try really hard. There is not much solace for us. I guess focusing on what we...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of LifeHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
1 points

A big thing that makes dating harder these days is that the internet of full of echo chambers where dumb ideologiesreach critical mass and leak out. A big one is incel ideology. Rejection is part of ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
1 points

32 and been pretty consistently in solid relationships since I was a teen, even engaged. I’ve always been super self conscious about it but honestly never had an issue with dating outside opening line...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
1 points

I'm neither ugly nor attractive, but had girls after me. My low self esteem held me back but I feel like an idiot for letting it...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
1 points

I've had this happen many times to the point I'm almost mute now, I hate talking to people for this very reason. Being impatient, straight up bullying and excluding in work, school and even at home. I...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & BullyingHelplessness & Agency