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postr/StutterDec 10, 2019
3 points

Struggling with using the phone at work

Struggling with using the phone at work I'm sure this has been posted about many times before, but I just need to get this off my chest. I'm pretty much at a loss with what to do. I've avoided using p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2019
0 points

Come on man. I know Diazepam is not going to heal or cure me. But what should I do? My speech is killing my life, my relations, my ability at work etc. My stuttering is making my life quality horrib...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Quality of LifeHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2019
2 points

Hey I feel you. Honestly we just gotta take things a day at a time. Appreciate the highs and ride out the lows. Try not to compare yourself to others. The fact that u made the call despite the fear is...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2019
3 points

It sounds like stuttering is negatively affecting your quality of life in a big way. If you choose to seek speech therapy, you may find that it's more worthwhile to be able to say the things you want,...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Quality of LifeAdvice RequestsSuicidal Ideation & High Distress
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2019
1 points

Glad that that technique is working for you. I too feel the same, people take things for granted, the things like answering calls and conversing with ease is really enviable from my point of view. I d...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Mindfulness & BreathingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2019
1 points

I just want to get rid of it and not be labelled and ignored all my life:( or even miss out on matters just because I can't speak without a struggle....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2019
1 points

I feel the same too! If someone was with me when I'm traveling in public transport or ordering food, I'd do those things without having to feel like a loser, and sometimes I even forget the route that...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyStress & Fight/FlightFrustration & Anger+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2019
2 points

Everyone is so used to speaking so they treat this like nothing. That's so frustrating, I'd rather have only anxiety and suffer with that than have both speech block and anxiety. It's ruining my life,...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyStress & Fight/FlightFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2019
13 points

The worst is when I’m trying to order food at a restaurant or talking to some kind of service person. My friends and family and coworkers all know I stutter so they just wait patiently till I get it o...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2019
1 points

I completely understand. I have a lot of trouble with blocks, especially when answering the phone. Whenever the phone rings at my job I literally get so scared my hands shake when I pick it up. Same w...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2019
2 points

I'm suffering from the same problem. I'm going through so much and I can't explain it all in words. It's that painful. I too am into teaching and my problem is that I can't get myself to travel to pla...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stress & Fight/FlightHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2019
1 points

This person is exactly right. I’m 33 so seeing the rise of texting in high school was a godsend. But beyond that everything is moving to apps. And I mean EVERYTHING. It’s coming to the point you can d...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Quality of LifeDating & RomanceIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2019
3 points

I’m 24 and yeah people tend to think I’m “slow” until they actually take the time to listen and hold a conversation with me and it usually ends up with them blown away by the depth I can take any conv...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2019
1 points

I’ve been denied drinks at. It’s so frustrating. I don’t drink anymore so I don’t deal with that any more....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerQuality of Life
postr/StutterNov 26, 2019
49 points

Do people assume you are “slow”?

Do people assume you are “slow”? Just found this sub a few minutes ago. Wow. I’ve been reading and it feels good to find a group of other people who stutter. I’ve only met one other person who I could...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2019
3 points

I resonate with just about every point on that list. The iceberg of stuttering, very few people(and unfortunately that often includes those around us who really should know better) realise how far r...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyShame & EmbarrassmentQuality of Life
postr/StutterNov 24, 2019
1 points

Does anybody here know of any technique to tackle stuttering when asking for a ticket on bus?

Does anybody here know of any technique to tackle stuttering when asking for a ticket on bus? [deleted]...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Advice RequestsQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2019
1 points

It's definitely luck unfortunately. I live in Australia so the disability benefits are higher than that of other countries. However the unemployment rate is soaring. There's just no happy medium unfor...

Social & Relationships
Quality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2019
2 points

Certainly a stutterer should refrain from applying at a call center or any other customer-facing role (depending on how severe their stutter is). However, I have been rejected outright and discriminat...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerStigma & BullyingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2019
3 points

“For some reason they class it as a disability” Stuttering is in fact a disability. I’m not sure why so many stutterers try to deny it. A stutterer will inevitably face prejudice, social disadvantage...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingEmployment & CareerQuality of Life+1 more