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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
5 points

It's neutral to good, depending on your personal feelings. Doesn't need to be good or bad, but I'd say it's preferable to the stress of worrying about their opinions....

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
5 points

Same here. I liked your quote; extrovert trapped inside an introvert. So true. Whenever I feel more confident the exotrover part of me come´s out and the stuttering diminish. Just like being alone. Y...

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postr/StutterMar 4, 2024
19 points

I don't quite understand

I don't quite understand I stutter, but only if I am nervous or excited which is basically 90% of my time. I tried speaking out loud when I was alone and I spoke surprisingly fluent, so I figured tha...

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postr/StutterMar 3, 2024
8 points

Intentions

Intentions Hey guys, new to the sub but not new to stammering 😅 About me, I’m Chris, M, 31. I started stammering in my mid teens, began creeping into my speech when trying to ask questions, Who, wha...

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postr/StutterMar 2, 2024
17 points

I have tried to accept my stutter but I still want to hide it

I have tried to accept my stutter but I still want to hide it I am a covert stutter and most of the people around me probably don’t even know I stutter. But lately there are words that I can’t substit...

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commentr/StutterFeb 29, 2024
3 points

Depends who's assuming what I'm saying, if it's my close friends who know about my stutter and try to assume what I'm going to say I don't mind since the conversation is able to continue If it's a r...

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commentr/StutterFeb 29, 2024
1 points

Yeah, the not being able to communicate, show your personality and etc can be really misrepresenting. My English speaking friends would see me as outgoing and funny but my Vietnamese speaking only fri...

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Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 29, 2024
2 points

I'm not bilingual but I took 4 years of Spanish in high school and then lived in Ecuador for 2 years. I was extremely proficient but not quite fluent. I stutter a lot worse in Spanish, but I think a l...

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commentr/StutterFeb 29, 2024
1 points

its the same problem with me like, my english is like 80% fluent but like others languages like turkish, urdu and etc. its like way worse and cant communicate with anyone...

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commentr/StutterFeb 29, 2024
2 points

Yea I have. My first job as a dish washer I did that and got the job. It's best if the manger is there to receive it as he or she may just interview you right there and there. Or better yet, they just...

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postr/StutterFeb 29, 2024
7 points

how my interview went

how my interview went Hi everyone, ​ I am a late 20s male, I have been stuttering my whole life and have been taking speech therapy for the last 2 years. This interview I haven't had much tim...

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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2024
2 points

I'm also Vietnamese and also 98% fluent in English like you. When I was in 6th grade, it was the first time I noticed I stuttered a lot in Vietnamese. I moved to America 2 years later and over time I ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2024
2 points

Ooof, I hear you about overseas relatives. I don't claim to be bilingual because of it. It definitely creates a cultural disconnect....

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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2024
1 points

i am bilingual and speak english + arabic and have the same exact experience with arabic. it makes it tough to connect with family overseas who i haven't stopped masking around for sure. i think it's ...

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postr/StutterFeb 28, 2024
30 points

I can make/accept calls now

I can make/accept calls now I am 18 and ever since i was a kid I had a severe stutter . At the point where I could not even say my name , now ever since I have turned 18 I have been able to make more ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2024
2 points

The soft palate is the soft layer of tissue that’s just behind the “hard” palate. It’s also called the velum. It’s involved in producing velar sounds such as /k/, /g/, and /ŋ/....

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commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2024
1 points

Hi, fellow stutterer. I'm kinda in the same circumstance. I talk, love to talk, and although I don't have a severe stutter the thought of it coming out scares me to death. My family says my speech ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2024
2 points

Bro you’re you’re spot on with literally everything you said. That’s what has ruined my life up till now.. my inability to deliver my words in a way that’s socially attractive. With my stutter most ti...

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postr/StutterFeb 27, 2024
29 points

I'm not afraid of talking, I'm afraid of stuttering

I'm not afraid of talking, I'm afraid of stuttering I really hate it when I stutter. Despite ten years of training (I'm now 18 yo), I still experience it every day, and sometimes it gets really bad. I...

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postr/StutterFeb 27, 2024
1 points

I'm NOT afraid of taking, I'm afraid of stuttering

I'm NOT afraid of taking, I'm afraid of stuttering I really hate it when I stutter. Despite ten years of training (I'm now 18 yo), I still experience it every day, and sometimes it gets really bad. I ...

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