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commentr/StutterJan 12, 2023
2 points

I was a senior barista at a Cafe for a few years. A lot of face-to-face stuff, calling out names for orders, drink names, etc. Some things will be easier, some things will be harder. Same thing goes f...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Authenticity vs. MaskingSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2023
2 points

It’s either you let stuttering define you, or you just view it as an obstacle that you simply have to maneuver through, but you don’t let it stop you from moving forward. I used to think I could never...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2023
1 points

>How can I (like you) become more genuine and speak from the heart? What is your definition exactly? What exactly were you noticing of the part of you that didn't want to speak? I mean, what though...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Authenticity vs. MaskingTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2023
2 points

I stutter and have some pretty bad blocks. But being a loser? No, I never let it define me. I have a hot wife, a good job where I get to travel and talk to lots of new people, I never let my stutter h...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2023
1 points

>How do I not **overthink** it and remain confident? Many different therapies have many different answers: * Some speech therapies advocate focusing on calm breathing to reduce **overthinking** *...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringMindfulness & BreathingMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2023
3 points

hey friend, i do this a lot too! my favorite filler word is “like” lol. the best advice i’ve gotten personally is to not be scared of saying the word you want to say. it’s much more daunting in your...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingFluency Techniques
postr/StutterJan 10, 2023
16 points

embracing My Stutter in my podcast

embracing My Stutter in my podcast So I started a podcast where I can embrace who i am,in the episode I share my journey with Stuttering,the good and the ugly,I share moments where I felt so embarrass...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & PridePersonal Stories
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2023
1 points

Some people are able to pass for fluent the rest of their lives without much effort but that’s the minority and even then, most of them simply become covert stutterers. They can swap words around and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2023
3 points

I just tell the person “btw I stutter, hope you don’t mind” and then go ahead and say whatever the heck I was gonna say. I don’t hide my stammer any more than someone with Cerebral Palsy would hide th...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2023
3 points

>It's 90% psychological, the more you think of it the more you will do it. In fact, me writing this post will probably make me stutter for a little while. The way im thinking is that it's almost li...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainMedicalization / NeurodiversityAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2023
1 points

Thanks for summing up again. I understand it much better so here are deeper questions. How can I (like you) become more genuine and speak from the heart? What is your definition exactly? &#x200B...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingTrauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2023
1 points

Omg ur soo right!! I never thought of people’s thoughts when I don’t have eye contact with them. Eye contact has to be one of my biggest struggles ever and whenever I stutter, I just look down. I tend...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2023
1 points

>I change the words I use to express myself sometimes AS I AM SPEAKING because I know the word is about to not work. I agree and a study showed that PWS can 90% of the times - predict a stutter co...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2023
1 points

>I do anticipate my stutter. Thank you for your detailed answer. The conclusion is then, before your ninth grade, you didn't have this trigger: * anticipation After your ninth grade you had thi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringExperiential Association+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2023
2 points

Good to know this is why my hap hazard methods often work! in the past 10 years of doing this without the pressure of therapy I have had a reduction. I agree that not being afraid of repetition helpe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilityFluency Techniques+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2023
5 points

Nothing works perfectly for me I learned to force my way through and am not trying to change. I don't pressure myself anymore but I have just learned ways I can sort of start and drumroll myself into...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilityFluency Techniques+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2023
2 points

>I know that causing tension by forcing it out isn't the correct way to do it, but I cannot help it. I can't even answer a simple "how are you" or say "have a good day". Someone with this type of ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
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commentr/StutterJan 7, 2023
6 points

Someone doing the most right here. thank you for helping. Like, what if my brain can't "just slow down" what then. Stuttering may be incurable for many of us but it's not as though it's TERMINAL. the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2023
1 points

I argue that **forgetting that I stutter** could lead to: * not paying attention on stuttering * not commenting on, overthinking or overreacting to stuttering, but also not on fluency * positive effe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2023
2 points

>How do you control or manage your stutter? If you speak too fast, you can try to speak slower and speak immediately after you breathe out. The sooner you learn that stuttering is not a problem, t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking