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postr/StutterSep 24, 2020
48 points

Alone

Alone 21 years old and I'm just too alone man. Making social connections with people is too damn hard; At work, at university, with new friends... I have a couple of friends here and there and that's ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
postr/StutterSep 22, 2020
8 points

living in a constant fear

living in a constant fear Today me and my sister went to the bank because we want to open a bank account. The banker started with my sister first and little that I know that they will asked for your p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2020
1 points

I get you I'm experiencing the exact same things. Everyone my age is having a part time job at stores and stuff while I will like never do that because the fear of talking to strangers. Try to stay st...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
postr/StutterSep 19, 2020
158 points

By far, one of the worst things about having a stutter...

By far, one of the worst things about having a stutter... is when you have a long, and really interesting story with lots of details that you want to share with people, but you end up just summarizing...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPropositionality & Weight+1 more
postr/StutterSep 15, 2020
5 points

Please help

Please help One day I’ll barely stutter but the next day I’ll stutter almost every sentence. It’s super annoying cause I’ll be talking to a group of people then I’ll stutter and I can’t get the words ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2020
1 points

None of us walk the shoes of another, but you have a community that understands your hardships as much as anyone else can. You are still young, and have so much time left to shape your future. Your li...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationQuality of Life
postr/StutterSep 13, 2020
14 points

Has anyone else here pretended to be mute so they don't need to talk?

Has anyone else here pretended to be mute so they don't need to talk? As the title already suggests I do that sometimes. Usually just for buying tickets or ordering food when I am alone. I even played...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2020
1 points

Yeah, it's not the case that ordering is by default spoken, right? I mean, I would've figured that web ordering was pretty much a worldwide thing these days? I certainly never have to talk to anyone w...

Social & Relationships
Quality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2020
4 points

Yeah I would just walk away if they made fun of my stutter. If they make fun of you, they clearly don’t care enough about the conversation and I would just be wasting my breath. And I don’t like wasti...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2020
1 points

It's interesting to me that people can acquire a stutter. Probably like how a blind person feels when people try to explain sight to them. Would you mind sharing when you acquired it? College is an ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideQuality of Life
postr/StutterSep 10, 2020
34 points

Your stutter isn’t going away

Your stutter isn’t going away Listen, there are ways to improve fluency but if you accept that your stutter will not go away it will make it easier to deal with. I remember my stutter in 2nd grade. I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
postr/StutterSep 10, 2020
8 points

Will there ever be a cure for stuttering?

Will there ever be a cure for stuttering? I was diagnosed with a speech disorder! and it has ruined my life, stuttering has impaired my ability to speak and socialize normally, everytime i try to soci...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionSadness & Hopelessness+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2020
1 points

I order using apps or self service when I can but if I have to order face to face. I have a well rehearsed upbeat "hi how are you?" no one ever reacts badly to it. It puts me at ease and relieves a lo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2020
12 points

At home I can talk for hours without stuttering but as soon as I need to make an appointment, order food or get on a bus, I cannot say one sentence without stuttering....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
postr/StutterSep 9, 2020
49 points

Tip for when ordering food

Tip for when ordering food I’ve found I stutter much less on numbers. So when I order food I tend to begin a sentence with the quantity. Particularly with a quantity of one as its sounds more unnatur...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
postr/StutterSep 7, 2020
3 points

Can stress and anxiety from stuttering cause high blood pressure?

Can stress and anxiety from stuttering cause high blood pressure? I am pursuing an MBA and I have 2 presentations tomorrow which has been stressing me out a lot. I usually have panic and anxiety attac...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
postr/StutterSep 5, 2020
53 points

Just doesn’t make sense

Just doesn’t make sense I’ll never ever in my life be able to grasp or sympathise with non-stutters complaining about public speaking, being nervous speaking to girls, or any form of speech related an...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
postr/StutterSep 2, 2020
73 points

Just me sharing my emotions because I had a hard stutter day today with people who are assholes

Just me sharing my emotions because I had a hard stutter day today with people who are assholes Whenever I speak I’ll get especially caught on one part and it can last literal minutes straight of stut...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2020
15 points

I'm 34 and I still stutter alot, it doesn't matter my friend, it's hard as hell believe me I know, but it doesn't define us, it's who we are apart from stuttering that defines us, have faith in Jesus,...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideQuality of Life
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
2 points

I completely agree with what you are saying. Someone that has never stuttered has absolutely no clue what it is like. For most people, speaking is just natural as it should be. It is often hard to thi...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationAcceptance & PrideQuality of Life