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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2023
32 points

Realistically, I would realize most of my speech “issues” have nothing to do with fluency and everything to do with trauma. In other words, my speech would be “cured” but the psychological byproduct...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2023
1 points

This is incorrect and doesn't apply to all PWS. I'm a severe stutterer who stutters in all situations, every day, on every word. I do not have days or situations where I am "fluent" (though I can be r...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainSeverity & FluctuationAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2023
2 points

Hi, Resident_Frame, I think you are referring to my comment that I still talk to myself? We’ll, I stuttered most of my life age 5-70. Because we stutterers often don’t stutter when talking to ourselve...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Trauma & PsychologicalAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2023
1 points

>*"Understanding the Speaker’s Experience of Stuttering Can Improve Stuttering Therapy. Top Lang Disorders. Vol. 42, No. 1, pp. 57–75. Written by: Seth E. Tichenor, Caryn Herring, and J. Scott Yaru...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2023
2 points

This! The amount of time and mental energy I spent trying to “cure” my stutter or hide it … smh I ended up feeling like a complete failure every day. This is just my experience, but after 20 years of ...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2023
1 points

I completely agree with the point OP is making. I’ve tried to be positive and say f*ck it and just deal with it. I’ve tried to accept it. But what happens is, you start to believe these sugar coated t...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
3 points

I’m a huge proponent of “stop trying to hide”, which is something I only finally out after age 40. I spent SO much time and energy in my life focused on how I’m different and how I can try to trick my...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterApr 14, 2023
7 points

Any other singers out there?

Any other singers out there? So a big reason I got into songwriting was because I could express myself without stuttering. My singing was totally fluent for years, and then my stutter seemed to jump i...

Causes & VariabilitySpeech & StutteringIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityRepetitions & ProlongationsAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2023
21 points

Wow... first and foremost that really sucks. I'm sorry. We humans get pretty stupid when we're confused. Stuttering confuses people and what comes next is what we would call a knee jerk reaction - a ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
4 points

I know exactly what you mean. This is easier said than done, but I’ve found a lot of success recently in expecting and accepting that I will stutter instead of trying to fight it or desperately hoping...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
1 points

If by methods you mean techniques, we didn't do those. Instead I had an individual road map based on the core principles of the therapy. It primarily involved undoing all the junk that had developed i...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Therapy ExperiencesAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
7 points

I feel this too. I don’t have a scientific answer but I feel like I can “turn it off” and just be fully myself without trying to be fluent around my parents and close family. When I’m with acquaintanc...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
6 points

I fully recovered from stuttering at the age of 70 through psychotherapy. My lifelong stuttering was emotionally caused by my abusive childhood. Nevertheless, I spent my life avoiding the looks in oth...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
5 points

I know these feelings so intimately. It started in 4th grade with me running out of a classroom and hiding until the end of the day, and it still stays present in my life now. For what it's worth, the...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
5 points

Lol I kept it real with people on this subreddit and was attacked because people kept being optimistic to the point where it was kissing non stutterers ass. "Oh accept me for who I am", that's all bs...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2023
3 points

>*One thing that always struck me as odd/funny is that I don't ever recall stuttering when needing to tell someone that they can fuck right off. Anyone have similar experiences?* Wendell Johnson (...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2023
7 points

I’ve known this but it sounds super fucked up and I never wanted to mention it because of how counterintuitive it sounds to this sub....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2023
58 points

i feel the exact same way. i can’t watch videos of other people stuttering, makes me cringe and feel idk just weird. It’s absolutely nothing against the person, i guess it’s just because i know that’s...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 5, 2023
7 points

It's not you, this happens to the majority of people who go through a fluency shaping program. You don't want to do it because it feels inauthentic and it sucks. It reinforces shame that stuttering is...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2023
1 points

You’re doing good. Sure the blocks get in the way but it also comes w genuine energy of coming off a bit timid and she might be attracted to that authenticity. End of the day its you and you will alwa...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation