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commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2021
11 points

Hi there, let me first say that I'm sorry that you feel this way. I read your story and everything is SO recognizable. I'm 45 years old. I tried controlling it for 45 years but I just can't. I've go...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2021
3 points

thats a great approach to stutter tbh i also dont care what people think of me anymore, they are gonna judge you anyway, even if you dont say anything, so whatever. im happy about your progress, keep...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideQuality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2021
1 points

Since you’re trying to write a character, I think it’s very important to try to understand the mind of a stutterer. You may have specific situations in mind that you want to write into your story, but...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Medicalization / NeurodiversityQuality of LifeHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2021
3 points

I'm not a PWS, but some issues that I've come across are: -not dating someone whose name is too hard -ordering something you don't want because it's too hard to say the right thing -people thinking...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of LifeStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterFeb 12, 2021
42 points

Just a vent about the two things I hate most about having a stutter

Just a vent about the two things I hate most about having a stutter 1) I hate that I sometimes don’t order what I want to eat, especially at the drive thru. If someone’s in the car and I’m ordering fo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2021
1 points

You are totally right it is much easier said than done. And everyone's approach to it is different. When I was in speech therapy we did a lot of live practicing. Literally call actual places and ask...

Therapy & ProfessionalSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Therapy ExperiencesQuality of LifeHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2021
2 points

I used to be a cashier. And I would have a couple of phrases ready in my head. So just in case I feel like Im about to stutter, I can say a different sentence instead. For example, We had to ask custo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2021
2 points

I'm reading a book where the author used to stutter during his youth, and he started using something called speech 'crutches' to get through some of these conversations. He mentioned 8-9 crutches that...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of LifeFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2021
1 points

^This has been my route since I was a kid. It helps especially if you read a lot and learn different words that are easier to sound out and still get the message across....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2021
5 points

One thing I usually do is have multiple ways of asking the same thing in case I block. It’s a bit of crutch and doesn’t solve the underlying issue but in these super short and quick interactions, it’s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2021
3 points

I love your comment so much, I can’t even tell you. I JUST got diagnosed like a week ago. I went totally gluten free last Friday. I feel like CRAP. Like, zero improvement. I’m taking two naps a day pl...

Social & Relationships
Quality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2021
2 points

Oh I totally feel you. If it were me, I’d have to say something like “I’m diabetic,” and then add “type 1” later lol...

Social & Relationships
Quality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2021
7 points

Whoa, a fellow stuttering celiac! We won the genetic lottery I guess. For what it's worth, I've found that I've only been safe eating at totally gluten-free restaurants. Helps with the thousand quest...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Quality of LifeSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterFeb 10, 2021
52 points

I was just diagnosed with an autoimmune disorder that is important to tell people about...

I was just diagnosed with an autoimmune disorder that is important to tell people about... The only problem? I CANT FREAKING SAY IT. C-ccc-ccccceliac disease 😖 This is something I must tell people...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesBlocks & StoppagesQuality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2021
6 points

I totally feel your pain and quite frankly it can feel demoralizing at times. It can be difficult to explain to people just how terrible it feels to not be able to speak freely. I try to explain to th...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & StutteringSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerRepetitions & ProlongationsQuality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2021
4 points

Yeah, I guess. Sometimes it's hard to say simple things like "hello" or "Thank you." So, people think I am hesitant or don't wanna say anything. It's hard to express...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
postr/StutterFeb 8, 2021
15 points

Not able to say the words I want is worse than a nightmare.

Not able to say the words I want is worse than a nightmare. I've been trying to keep this to myself but am unable to do so due to all the pent-up frustration that's been suffocating me. Why do we hav...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesFeared Words & NamesQuality of Life+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2021
3 points

Hi. I'm 34, and have worked at Subway, Steak N Shake, University Dining, University Art Resource Center, Walt Disney World, the Home Depot, A Carousel Factory, and a Sign Making shop. My stutter has ...

School & WorkCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerSeverity & FluctuationStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 8, 2021
11 points

How to be comfortable at a job?

How to be comfortable at a job? I'm not sure if this belongs here but I honestly don't know where to post. I thought I'd post here because it is related to my stutter. **About my stutter** I'm 19 an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentQuality of LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2021
6 points

I totally get this. I find it real hard to start a conversation with people when I’m experiencing a bad speech day. Like I can literally sit beside someone at lunch and not be able to initiate a conve...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionQuality of Life