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Hi. I'm 34, and have worked at Subway, Steak N Shake, University Dining, University Art Resource Center, Walt Disney World, the Home Depot, A Carousel Factory, and a Sign Making shop. My stutter has never been an issue. I've only ever encountered two rude customers and both were at the Home Depot. I encountered a woman who was... overly encouraging in that patronizing, rude way but I think her intentions were genuine. Even working at Disney, where I encountered people from all the over world, I never had a rude comment about my stutter. I've only ever had one co-worker who mocked my stutter and they left/were fired shortly after - many other issues preceded the mocking and I think he was taking out a lot of insecurities on me because I did his job better than him. Right now, my stutter is actually being hugely problematic. For me. No one else. Just me. and that's how it is and should be in your job. No one will care. Your coworkers and employers will not mind if they are relatively kind. Mine have never been concerned beyond my comfort - asking if I feel comfortable answering the phone, working directly with customers, giving tours. All of which, once I relax, I can do easily. In fact, I was thanked by teachers who brought students to the carousel factory for being an adult with a disability many children deal with at least temporary and showing them that it's no big deal to me. Your stutter is going to be there. It will come and go - hopefully most folks won't notice it beyond "Hey, AverageLoser05 - you seem stressed lately.. everything okay?" Hopefully as you relax into a job, you will stutter less and your speech will become your normal if it elevates in stress like mine does. If customers were impatient with me, I think most never showed it - I also tend to be comfortable speaking while multitasking. I can make small chat while ring someone up, making their food, or actually enjoying my job. Getting the job has never really been an issue with my stutter - Once I applied to be a tour guide on campus and I didn't get that for reasons that were vague enough to not indicate the speech problem. But also, I didn't prepare well for that all. I don't even mention my stutter in interviews and rarely in applications. Isolation is hitting a lot of us - my speech has been very bad this fall and winter and I think it's from a lot of anxiety around the pandemic, my lack of a job, my new job, lack of social interaction..you're not alone.