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commentr/StutterSep 8, 2023
1 points

I won't downvote you. Walking is a skill that we learn as well. And while we learn to walk there is most certainly trying, effort, and anticipation of every step you make. Only after you've mastered...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2023
1 points

It's incredible how much the "preamble"/allowing yourself to stutter makes a difference...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2023
1 points

Brain activity depends on external factors as well. Talking fluently by yourself (which some stutterers like myself don't do) doesn't mean that it's completely within your control. Even if it's not a ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2023
1 points

Well if the brain is indeed wired in that way there is nothing to be done for us. The fact that some people in the stutter community has gain full fluency and that most of us can talk completely flu...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2023
1 points

When you are by yourself in your room or no one is home. ¿Do you make the same effort? ¿Or you tend to relaxe and just talk without thinking? Try asking a friend that your see confident and fluent. A...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2023
1 points

Fortunately, I almost never block on my name anymore. When I used to, people asked me if I forgot my name....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2023
1 points

I've discovered that stuttering is not the main disorder that I've had for most of my life. It's merely a symptom of the stress and anxiety of being around others, and my fear of being judged negativ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2023
1 points

That’s actually what happened to me at university - I was legitimately all alone and basically forced to introduce myself to everyone. I didn’t stutter, once after 2 months, for 2 full years. Also at ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2023
1 points

Remember stuttering at age 5. Speech therapy my through my life. Nothing worked. Lived at the fork: choose being true to myself or avoiding shame. At age 23 - I was ready to go all in and face whateve...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Seeking TherapyAuthenticity vs. MaskingMindset shift+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2023
1 points

1. Fuck him - next time tell any thoughtless human - “this is how I how my courage muscle” before speaking. Be a mirror for other people. 2. Use the mantra “now is not forever - and I feel free” 3. T...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2023
1 points

I love a good acceptance post here. I am not religious but I don't think this message *requires* faith in God to work. I don't think this post is even pushing god. It's about faith in yourself that yo...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
postr/StutterAug 25, 2023
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Tips to improve stuttering from the research: "Unassisted recovery from stuttering: Self-perceptions of current speech behavior, attitudes, and feelings" by applying Yaruss's ICF model

Tips to improve stuttering from the research: "Unassisted recovery from stuttering: Self-perceptions of current speech behavior, attitudes, and feelings" by applying Yaruss's ICF model I'm on a missio...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterAug 24, 2023
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Tips to improve stuttering from the research: "Recovery from stuttering" (work on active cognitive and behavioural self-changes; modify your speech, thoughts or feelings; increase motivation to recover; maintain a perception as a normal speaker; believe in recovery; change your tendency to stutter)

Tips to improve stuttering from the research: "Recovery from stuttering" (work on active cognitive and behavioural self-changes; modify your speech, thoughts or feelings; increase motivation to recove...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2023
1 points

"I remember this one time I stuttered in front of x person I liked it was so embarrassing" V.S "I've spent every waking moment of my life questioning my own intelligence because of my speech" It's j...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterAug 23, 2023
1 points

Tips to improve stuttering from the research: "Neural change, stuttering treatment, and recovery from stuttering" (apply strategies that promote plastic compensation for function loss, avoid excessive abnormal motor coordination attempts, minimize excessive speech outcome monitoring)

Tips to improve stuttering from the research: "Neural change, stuttering treatment, and recovery from stuttering" (apply strategies that promote plastic compensation for function loss, avoid excessive...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainFluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2023
1 points

I attended HCRI about three months ago and as of now it is working great. I practice twice a day and am almost entirely fluent. I've been considering posting about it but I want to give it some more t...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Positive Therapy TechniquesAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2023
1 points

Yeah, same here. Sometimes when I'm not actively thinking about my speech, I can rattle off whole sentences that I would normally block on. Very much seems psychological. Maybe not for everybody, but ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterAug 21, 2023
1 points

My stutter went away (for less than a day)

My stutter went away (for less than a day) I have a bad stutter, and it hinders my ability to do well in school. However, I'll always remember this one class. So here's what happened: It was a biolog...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2023
1 points

I'm an IT consultant in my twenties and my biggest realisation has been that no one really cares - neither my bosses, colleagues or customers. This might be because I'm no longer afraid or ashamed to ...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Authenticity vs. MaskingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2023
1 points

The way to get over stuttering is not to subconsciously or consciously think ‘I’ll stutter/need perfect speech’ etc etc anything speech wise. U just speak if u have to say something or don’t. Acceptan...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking