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commentr/StutterNov 17, 2017
3 points

> Okay so here's a q - how do you accept it? Like what steps do I need to do? I hear all the time once you accept it, it's easier but how? Acceptance is a gradual process. It doesn't all happen a...

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commentr/StutterNov 17, 2017
2 points

So okay I tried that but I've gotten these conclusions - their tone doesn't seem nice, I feel like I'm bothering them when they can help someone else or I'm asking a dumb q I can find on their website...

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commentr/StutterNov 17, 2017
1 points

Exactly. Okay so I tried that but (maybe you feel the same way idk) when I do that, it seems like they're not really interested like in their tone or don't you feel that you are wasting their time the...

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commentr/StutterNov 17, 2017
3 points

Sometimes the tool is putting a word or syllable in front of the main word. I cannot, for the life of me, say “Italy” (or similar word) alone (beginning of a sentence) under any condition - tense or r...

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commentr/StutterNov 17, 2017
2 points

It's good your not complacent. This means you are at the point where you are open to take some steps. For example, you could start calling store and ask simple questions to practice speaking on the ph...

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commentr/StutterNov 16, 2017
2 points

I guess with me it's like a subconscious self learned habit. When I really don't have to be fluent I'm not. Peak stuttering for me is in a relaxed conversation with a small group, and it's slightly le...

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commentr/StutterNov 16, 2017
11 points

You need to push yourself out of your comfort zone. For me it took me till I got to my mid-20's and the pain of not progressing in life got more unbearable than the pain or fear of stuttering. Honestl...

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commentr/StutterNov 16, 2017
2 points

I've been to speech therapy for most of my life - those strategies only seem to work when I'm talking in low-pressue situations (with my pathologist, family, friends, etc.) and not in "higher-stake" s...

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commentr/StutterNov 16, 2017
2 points

While it is true that you cannot be sure that it's because of your speech, a lot of stammerers are employed in jobs where they are required to speak, including myself. You have to stand out, if you sh...

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commentr/StutterNov 16, 2017
3 points

How? I mean like I think they think why would we give a job to her who can't communicate properly even on the phone? We can get another person who has similar background with better speaking skills. ...

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commentr/StutterNov 16, 2017
2 points

As much as I sympathize with you, you can't blame your speech for everything. You have to be the person who really wants that job and you can get any job you bloody well want. Just work hard for it, y...

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postr/StutterNov 16, 2017
8 points

What jobs/careers do you have or do you suggest?

What jobs/careers do you have or do you suggest? So I've been out of college for a while (over a year) and am having a real hard time finding a job. I think it's purely because of my speech. I mean I ...

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commentr/StutterNov 16, 2017
1 points

Most restaurants have numbers on the menu so most of the time I just say those. I mostly let other people order for me or go to the bathroom before the waiter comes. Maybe not the best way to deal wi...

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commentr/StutterNov 16, 2017
2 points

I used sertraline, which is a anti depressant mostly used for teenagers. It did help me but was changing my mood quite a bit, much happier but artificial. Situations like vocal exams were still hell, ...

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commentr/StutterNov 16, 2017
2 points

Make them wait. Resisting time pressure is a key skill in managing stuttering....

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commentr/StutterNov 15, 2017
2 points

I always say it if I can't say a word for over 3 seconds. Everyone says thats okay take your time...

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postr/StutterNov 13, 2017
4 points

How to use filler words and still sound smart - Stuttering Habits

How to use filler words and still sound smart - Stuttering Habits ...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2017
2 points

Oh, interesting! I feel that sometimes. Sometimes I get annoyed though, like I want to feel like I'm this independent person (I'm 30), and not have someone else speak for me. It's really interesting h...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2017
1 points

Mainly I would have wanted that teacher to know that I had a stutter beforehand. I can't hate on him for asking me my name because it's such a simple question that people ask each other all the time. ...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2017
3 points

I really appreciate you asking this question. As a PWS I find it really difficult to say my name and the way people react to it can really have an effect on me (good or bad). I think that the most h...

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