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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2024
0 points

This is because you are speaking in a way that is not natural to you. You will stutter less if you speak quietly or at a different pitch, but it will not last long. I remember tons of tricks to "speak...

Anticipation & Avoidance
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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2024
2 points

This definitely happens to me a lot in public— saying “thank you” offhand to people in public is really hard. Often I will make eye contact, smile warmly, and mouth/whisper “thank you.” Sometimes i g...

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2024
7 points

Masking is my only technique to suppress it. Either fake my accent lil bit or reading from notes or word replacement. Yet I get messed up saying a simple item from the menu. Tried to say Banger and ...

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2024
3 points

This is a great point. People are mimetic in conversations and will respond to how the other person presents. If you feel uncomfortable, they will too. And almost all of it is tone and body language, ...

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Hiding & ConcealmentHope & MotivationMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2024
0 points

Seems pretty on point to me as a mild blocker....

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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2024
1 points

He’s a mild blocker it appears. I immediately knew he stuttered, so I feel he does a pretty good job acting (eye contact avoidance, small tick when he blocks). He’s portrayed as a smart, quiet young m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentPhysical TensionPublic Awareness / Media
postr/StutterOct 2, 2024
3 points

Career advice for a bad stutterer

Career advice for a bad stutterer Are there any jobs where you don't need good communication skills or even an interview? I have failed every job interview I have had because of my stutter when answe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2024
1 points

I (24) actually work for a huge financial firm on the phones. I’m new to this thread but I assume it’s common to only stutter in your “regular voice” not singing or yelling etc; I think I can do the p...

School & WorkCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerSituational VariabilityHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2024
0 points

It’s mad tho isnt it I hate having one and I’ll avoid it at all Costs !! My workplace doesn’t even know I have one either I hide it that much...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterOct 2, 2024
10 points

Just need a little insight from others.

Just need a little insight from others. Currently on the journey trying to better myself, ive been talking despite ofc the stuttering, asking question when i actually need help instead of just trying ...

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Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftHope & Motivation+1 more
postr/StutterSep 30, 2024
17 points

Realizing I’ll probably never have it as good again

Realizing I’ll probably never have it as good again I recently had to leave my job as a barista at Starbucks due to starting college, which I miss horribly (this isn’t a promotion or anything btw). As...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2024
0 points

Bro literally I’m at the fair now. My friend met up with these 2 girls n my brother here to with me. It’s like I’m always the one in the background. Like if I open my mouth nobody hears me, it’s like ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Loneliness & IsolationAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2024
1 points

look into openstutter in youtube. For me it is incredibly important to let go of the need to speak fluently. Every time I kick myself for stuttering, my subconscious learns that the act of 'speaking...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2024
3 points

There are many covert stammers in sales, like in any other positions. I have a slight stammer myself, and that’s no problem especially now (M45, Sales Manager) that I’m more calm and self confident th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2024
1 points

Hmm, maybe situational reduction, but it wasn't just because of toastmasters. After years of doing things out of my comfort zone and being more social, some things have been easier. For example, I h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2024
0 points

I used to be like this, but realized that it's so mentally exhausting to switch on this mode whenever I want to speak and to react to switching words on the fly. I just stutter and say what I want ins...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2024
10 points

Gym Is good for me to release tension and stress, but I have no improvement for stuttering...

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Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2024
1 points

Keep working out bro. I’ve been hitting the gym 5 years consistently. Working out does build confidence but never did much to help my stutter directly...

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Hope & MotivationHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterSep 29, 2024
3 points

My mom ruined my confidence in a way/ Yappathon

My mom ruined my confidence in a way/ Yappathon I want to explain this in full detail. So I apologize if I type too much for you guys to read. Quick disclaimer, I am developmentally delayed and autis...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
postr/StutterSep 28, 2024
8 points

Anyone else kind of get away with using lots of filler/substitutions?

Anyone else kind of get away with using lots of filler/substitutions? I used to fear stuttering and think about it 99% of the time. Like nearly 100% consumed with constant fear and negative feedback l...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation+1 more