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commentr/StutterJan 1, 2024
2 points

It’s funny, I’ve had “cool, let’s never talk about how much stuttering sucks ever again.” I’ve also had “how did you overcome it?” To which I tell them HCRI, practice and confidence.” Be ready for e...

Coping & Advocacy
Fluency TechniquesMindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2024
1 points

Don’t take it personal. Best thing you can do is laugh it off imo. Happens to the best of us lol....

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2024
1 points

Try not to dwell on it. That kind of stuff can eat you up inside. It happens. It's shit. Acknowledge when shit happens and carry on. You have other things going on in your life that are more important...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2024
2 points

What about a resolution to reduce your stuttering? For me, I used to wish just to be “normal”, so I understand where you’re coming from. So I spent a long time, figuring out a way how to reduce my st...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Mindset shiftSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2024
2 points

Fake it till you make. Fake confidence works too.you could be scared shitless in the inside. Have all the anxiety in the world but just act like your shit don’t stink on the outside. If you play the p...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2024
2 points

That’s the deal with stuttering… We earn our fluency/good speech daily. Which is why there can never be a cure. So now that we got that out-of-the-way, you can still have the life that you want to ha...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2024
1 points

One perspective shift, that helped me along the way, was the goal of reducing my stutter. There was something that clicked for me about not trying to become fluent at first as my goal, but just to r...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Mindset shiftSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2024
2 points

Hey, I feel your pain. For most of my life when I stuttered badly, I used to wish on every birthday cake to have normal speech, just to be normal. And then I get it. The thing I wanted to share th...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2024
2 points

Hey, thanks for your comment and for saying my name sounds familiar. I’ve been contributing in this stuttering space in discord server for about a year and in the sub Reddit for a bit. So I can only ...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftEmployment & CareerPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2024
2 points

It is all about progressive improvement. Do not compare to other people. Just focus on yourself. Try to make tomorrow better than yesterday...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2023
1 points

I agree with you! If I stutter, I stutter. I use techniques to help me through a stutter, but I’m not gonna let it have dominion over me. It’s also okay, if someone wants to hide their stutter was a...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2023
1 points

And know exactly what you’re talking about! Isolation From others, being trapped inside your own thoughts because I can’t communicate it verbally, feeling restricted through speech and the anxiety of ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Loneliness & IsolationHelplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2023
1 points

Absolutely! There's no point adding stress when stress makes things worse. Some people say that avoidance is a bad thing, but it depends on the context. Pathological avoidance needs to be worked on to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 26, 2023
1 points

We hold ourselves back. That’s it. How can you stop this? See how often you shrink yourself to fit in. How small you make yourself and go the opposite way. Things won’t work out immediately but notice...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2023
1 points

I do not mind challenging myself. I talk to friends and colleagues just fine, despite if I stutter or not. I have been focusing on my mental and “nonchalant” attitude regarding my speech, and have had...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2023
1 points

I do not mind challenging myself. I talk to friends and colleagues just fine, despite if I stutter or not. I have been focusing on my mental and “nonchalant” attitude regarding my speech, and have had...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2023
1 points

Heya dude. I was the same as you until last year when I was 25. My stutter affected my life every day mentally. It was rough. I don't know why this happened, but I was in a shop queueing up to buy som...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterDec 19, 2023
1 points

Don’t let your stutter or blocks impact your well being

Don’t let your stutter or blocks impact your well being Having blocks or a stutter isn’t the best & if we could get rid of it we would instantly but we can’t so it is what it is ..my blocks doesn’...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2023
1 points

So I read what you shared, thank you for expanding upon your story. The thing about the self image is that it can lead us to a life we’re happy about and proud of or life that we really don’t like. ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2023
1 points

You might try adjusting your post stutter mindset. Are you dwelling on your stutter after the fact? That could be detrimental....

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftOverthinking & Monitoring