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commentr/StutterAug 21, 2024
3 points

I didn’t mean to come across as ableist but I have often heard the word “cure” used by stutterers on this sub.. others call it a disability. . I have ADHD and shit yeah if someone could “cure” th...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / NeurodiversityHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2024
4 points

I was passed over for jobs that I was overly qualified for. I felt like I had to settle in my career because of it...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2024
4 points

I agree 100% our struggle is tough because it’s an all day feeling of “how’d I do?” Or “damn I probably sounded stupid” I’m learning to just say “it is what it is” at this point...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2024
1 points

24 and became very introverted after getting stutter, at 16. Prior to that was very social...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2024
28 points

So true. Even getting our needs met. We don't express our needs, feelings or opinions because we can't verbally, spontaneously verbalize what others can. Its a world of frustration and settling for wh...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyPropositionality & WeightQuality of Life
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2024
5 points

''it's moulded my personality to someone I had to be rather than soneone I wanted to be'. this is so true. this what stuttering do. Slowly it shape us in a certain way and by the time we know it best ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2024
21 points

i know right. its weird to see so many others who can effortlessly speak to others without even thinking much about, whereas we contemplate so much to even say small things. idk if ill ever be able to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterAug 20, 2024
83 points

Stuttering is underrated

Stuttering is underrated Who else feel like stuttering is one of the greatest challenges in life but it’s underrated like people don’t understand how we have to work 10x harder then everyone else sum...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationHelplessness & AgencyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2024
12 points

I'm 61, most of what you say I can def relate to, it's moulded my personality to someone I had to be rather than soneone I wanted to be.. It will effect the rest of your life, esp career wise.. ...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterAug 18, 2024
15 points

since 1 year looking for a job is impossible, with this speech disorder it is impossible, I know, I can't get even a simple job, I don't know what to do, where to go, all this brutality is insane

since 1 year looking for a job is impossible, with this speech disorder it is impossible, I know, I can't get even a simple job, I don't know what to do, where to go, all this brutality is insane ...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerHelplessness & AgencyStigma & Bullying
commentr/stutteringAug 18, 2024
1 points

I understand you. It can be a hassle. I’m 23 year old female who stutters and it’s frustrating....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 17, 2024
8 points

Life can be weird and you never know what twist and turns it has in store for you. I (39M) let my stutter dictate my life when I graduated high school. Looking back 20 years later I can objectively ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkCauses & Variability
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2024
3 points

First I want to say that it will be hard, you got to know the truth. But know that high school will be hard for a great many of kids with all sorts of other issues as well. Even if you’re the only P...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
School & Academic LifeAccess & RightsAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2024
16 points

After I had trouble in elementary and middle school, I became quite stubborn in high school. When we had to read in front of class, I simply didn’t do it. I said “I pass, I’m not reading today.” I d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic LifeSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
postr/StutterAug 15, 2024
9 points

Help

Help I’ve said many times on this sub and it’s mostly the only thing I’m talking about is my goddamn stutter, it’s getting of control, it’s been 19 years and nothing have changed at all it’s getting ...

Causes & VariabilitySpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationBlocks & StoppagesHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2024
1 points

Brother the only thing that i can say to make you feel good and what i should say is that i can totally understand your situation my parents love me but still don’t pay attention to this fact that mi...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2024
3 points

It always hits me like a truck, but i know i gotta get through this otherwise ill be stuck in a same place....

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Helplessness & AgencySeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2024
1 points

I'm in Year 8 in secondary school with a stutter/stammer. I've had it since forever, I don't remember the last time I've been able to talk "normally". Stuttering has really effected me as a person, fr...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception+3 more
postr/StutterAug 14, 2024
42 points

Why do most people think we're not hireable?

Why do most people think we're not hireable? So what are we supposed to do then? Just starve and die? ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterAug 13, 2024
17 points

Stutterer's life

Stutterer's life Earlier today I post "nobody can understand us", In this post, I will talk about our life. We can not speak properly so stuttering should only affect our communication, right? Well.....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & Career+1 more