postr/StutterAugust 13, 2024

Stutterer's life

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Stutterer's life Earlier today I post "nobody can understand us", In this post, I will talk about our life. We can not speak properly so stuttering should only affect our communication, right? Well..... It is hard to connect to new people, on frist day at work, every new person is making connection, cracking jokes and sharing their background. And I was watching like a dream to a little boy. One person asked my name in front of 10 people and frist impression of mine went down to hell. We are the dumbest ones in any conversation not because we are dumb, it is because we can not speak our mind. See we have to depend on other person to be nice with us because if he/she wants, can destroy us anytime. It happens to me many times, there were some friends how were nice to me because I was faking agreeing with their stupid thoughts, the moment I speak my mind, They picked my stuttering and completely destroy me. Yes this can happen to non stutterer also but they can fight for themselves and we can try but..... If I wouldn't have stuttering I could debate group of people and still win. But with stuttering, I can never even win against a person. This post is getting large, thank you for reading, in this post I just explain 1% of our life. I want to say many things and I will in my next post.

Themes

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & WorkEmotional Experience

Subthemes

Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & CareerHelplessness & Agency