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commentr/StutterMar 2, 2022
1 points

It's a way of taxonomical categorizing how one uses conditionings, a process in which a previously neutral stimulus comes to evoke a specific response by being repeatedly paired with another stimulus ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Experiential AssociationVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2022
6 points

I think it’s funny, so I usually laugh at myself but I try not to because they usually invites others. You can work on it though...

Community & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Humor & Community ToneVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2022
1 points

Yea, using the technique of deliberate disfluency is difficult, but I feel like it always lessons my fear of speaking. And the more situations we do it in, the easier it becomes to do it again in othe...

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2022
2 points

Great to hear! The transformation in people is always amazing to see🤩 good on you! I use deliberate disfluency in certain situations if my fear level is significantly high. Although I still struggle ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2022
6 points

As practice and I guess as a form of pseudo cognitive behavioral therapy I would call random places from the phone book and then deliberately stutter. I would introduce myself, ask random menu related...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2022
2 points

In response to your previous statement. I'd force yourself to stutter if you're really fluent to just explain that you have a stutter. I would not go deeper than that or say you are not normally this ...

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2022
1 points

Can I ask some questions so we can learn more about our problem? You said: " It is still harshly chopped up, with pauses ". \--> Right now, can you read out loud alone and deliberatey NOT pause i...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2022
3 points

Awesome! Yea, I just wasn’t sure of your tone because we’re online lol. Yea, I think being ourselves is huge for the journey of recovery from stuttering. It’s so difficult, but I believe that if s...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2022
3 points

Official PTSD diagnosis is only useful if you are looking for a reason for having a very hard time functioning. Ideas. Practice them at any time of the day, alone, w others: 1. Don’t look down or ...

Coping & Advocacy
Fluency TechniquesMindfulness & BreathingVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2022
2 points

Great question, perfect question actually, that is essentially the most mind numbing aspect to stuttering. I can speak perfectly with so much confidence alone, but given the right circumstances, I sec...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2022
2 points

I certainly know that fear, but I find that, and I think many of the other comments on here are saying the same thing, the fear of what might happen is so much worse than when/if it actually does happ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2022
1 points

I think it’s fine to discuss here. We need to practice putting ourselves in verbal situations that bring out shame - to learn that it’s less and less necessary....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2022
2 points

Then that is evidence that your stutter is directly related to confidence. Exposure therapy is your solution. Find a big group that’ll let you introduce yourself, and be okay with you failing. Say you...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureFeared Words & NamesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2022
11 points

Because life is a fuckin' bitch, my dude. But as others have said, exposure. Throw yourself into difficult situations until they aren't difficult any more. I'm 37 and still stutter, but I caught mys...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2022
13 points

My biggest thing is exposure therapy. I make myself use the drive through speaker box and stuff like that just so I know I can. The more I do that kinda stuff the less doing that bothers and the less ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureMindfulness & BreathingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2022
10 points

Hey! It's probable that if someone doesn't fire you is not because of your stutter but because of you being uncomfortable with your own stutter. In general, that is what is going to affect the job, no...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2022
8 points

I've got two. 1. Intentionally stutter during a few interactions. It's the hardest thing for a stutterer to do intentionally, but it gives a great muscle memory. Something about forcing it gives me ...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureSituational Variability
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2022
13 points

One thing that helped me is the soft start for blocking at the start of sentences is. Start every word with a very soft "h" sound under my breath. You can do it so it's undetectable, for exemple if ...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Mindfulness & BreathingStress & Fight/FlightVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2022
1 points

\> NOT CARE about this thought, fade the thought, distract myself from the thought or change the thought to 'I won't stutter on the letter'. ​ It is much easier to change a behaviour t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2022
1 points

You need to create positive speaking situations to counteract the negative ones. Best way to do this? Deliberate dysfluency or stuttering on purpose. Pick up a phone, and get a list of all your local ...

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & Exposure