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commentr/StutterDec 13, 2024
11 points

While people might not have best reaction to our stutter, it is also helpful for us to be less sensitive to other people’s reactions, for the sake of our own mental health. For me I used to be hyper ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2024
4 points

I personally have never contemplated self-harm myself, but I do understand the self-hate you're experiencing. As stutterers, we face challenges in our daily lives that most people would consider trivi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & PrideQuality of Life
postr/StutterDec 12, 2024
36 points

Does anyone has ever felt extremly bad about themselves at a deep level because of stuttering?

Does anyone has ever felt extremly bad about themselves at a deep level because of stuttering? Most of the time i have ideas of hurting myself and i wanna stop it, but i cant do it. I wanna get rid of...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2024
6 points

Making and being covert takes a serious mental toll. Stutter freely!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterDec 12, 2024
11 points

Taming the beast

Taming the beast Hi everyone, I just came here to write something. I'm 25 y/o and since many years ago I have my stutter under control 95% of the time through a combination of crutches, fillers and wo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride+1 more
postr/StutterDec 11, 2024
21 points

How stopped blocking.

How stopped blocking. Just wanted to put this out there. Myself and my friend who stutters both had this experience, hoping it helps someone because there's alot of comments about blocking. Blocking ...

Coping & AdvocacySpeech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureBlocks & StoppagesHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2024
1 points

I could imagine that coming with a variety of downsides. While I want to be able to speak my mind, I’d ruin lots of relationships if everything that came to mind was vocalized lmao. Also I don’t know...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2024
2 points

In a just world, that route would be logical, but I learned how to play the game until I reached my ultimate goal....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2024
1 points

I’ve stammered (as we call it in the UK) all my life but it was only about ten years ago that I saw a therapist who really turned things around for me. The big revelation was that the things I had a...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & Avoidance
Therapy ExperiencesHiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2024
1 points

Sounds like these 2 situations both cause you anxiety which in turn causes you to anticipate them with fear. This all causes tension which causes you to stutter more severely. Suppose the main thing w...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAnticipating StutteringHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2024
2 points

That’s awesome, and super relatable! I also did some speech therapy for a while. It improved my fluency a bit, but like you said, getting rid of the secondary stuff (avoiding eye contact, ticks, etc.)...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
Acceptance & PrideHiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2024
5 points

I started speech therapy at the beginning of this year and went from having a severe blocking stammer with many many avoidance behaviours such as, not using the phone unless I have to, getting other p...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Positive Therapy TechniquesAcceptance & PrideEmployment & Career+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2024
5 points

Unfortunately for me, I don't have an outgoing personality to compensate for my stutter. I have the double whammy of being both a stutterer and a profound introvert as evidence by my first posting ab...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterDec 8, 2024
11 points

Stuttering, interviews, and a public/client facing career

Stuttering, interviews, and a public/client facing career This is modified from post I made on r/introvert now that I realize my issue is as much stuttering as it is introversion. I have had a severe...

School & WorkCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerTrauma & PsychologicalHiding & Concealment+2 more
postr/StutterDec 8, 2024
2 points

I always put my hand on my face now whenever I talk

I always put my hand on my face now whenever I talk Whenever I talk now I just subconsciously put my mouth on my face. I guess it’s just because I’m so self conscious now of the faces that I make whe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2024
4 points

I’ve worn so many facades- long hair, short hair, fit, fat, sad, funny, manic, the tough guy, the soft guy, the metal guy, the cop, the etc etc etc....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterDec 8, 2024
2 points

My stuttering is alot better now, but struggling with Specific Sounds - Seeking Advice

My stuttering is alot better now, but struggling with Specific Sounds - Seeking Advice Hi everyone, I’ve been dealing with stuttering for a while now, and I wanted to share my experience and get some...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/stutteringDec 4, 2024
1 points

Hiding doesn’t help

Hiding doesn’t help Been running and hiding from my stutter for my whole life.. I’m 36 and still scared to speak.. avoiding anything that Requires me to talk...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
postr/StutterDec 4, 2024
20 points

What ACTUALLY helped me was...

What ACTUALLY helped me was... In advance... Please forgive this post for being so long. Like so many on here, I had a speech therapist starting at a young age. She was very smart/educated in her fi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSituational Variability+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2024
6 points

I feel your pain. I stutter too. It’s either I can’t get words out or they come out so fast it’s like word vomit. I, too, have a job dealing with the public, but I work from home. My boss knows I can’...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more