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postr/StutterDec 14, 2023
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Tech Sales Role

Tech Sales Role Hi Guys, I'm a recent graduate (M23) and I've been offered an interview for a Tech Sales (SaaS) role for a startup.. its very well paid and I'd be silly to turn it down for a first gr...

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2023
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Okay this was really helpful. I'll ask a colleague to help record me so I can notice my behaviours. Thanks alot. I tend to avoid eye contacts while speaking to people, I guess I'll just look over thei...

Speech & StutteringSocial & Relationships
Physical TensionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2023
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I'll let them know before I start addressing them. I've been shying away from speaking in public ever since I flopped the last one lol hopefully this one goes well. šŸ˜…...

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Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2023
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Have you ever tried giving people a heads up that you stutter? That’s what I usually do when I have to address a crowd and it does help me to see that I tell people this about me and they still want t...

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commentr/StutterDec 13, 2023
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Some of us cannot control secondary behaviors like grimacing in the moment and crowd cannot control their own anxious facial expressions when they don't know how to react. You just gotta keep going. B...

Speech & StutteringSocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Physical TensionDisclosure & Telling OthersSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2023
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If you know what it’s about you might want to put something on paper for the first part so you can avoid your hard words. Practice for your self a bit to find out what suits you. I als second the tip ...

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commentr/StutterDec 13, 2023
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Depends on a lot of factors, but i'd say that your safest bet is telling them the truth. Tell them that you have a bad stutter and that it is particularly severe when calling (you can maybe even make ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2023
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The first thing you should do is to tell the crowd that you stutter and tht you will appreciate the patience. The monkey will be off your back trust me. Start with something informal that you are comf...

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postr/StutterDec 13, 2023
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Put Stuttering in my CV?

Put Stuttering in my CV? Is it recommended to put stuttering in your CV when applying for a job? I live in Ecuador and I am a Software Engineer, my main languages are Spanish and English but my stut...

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Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2023
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It helps me to say smth like "I'm stuttering in every language I speak" when I first stutter with a new people in foreign language. Sometimes stuttering is perceived as if person cannot come up with...

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Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2023
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This is what I did too. The more upfront I was about it, the less I found people took notice....

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commentr/StutterDec 10, 2023
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To answer your question. I believe it’s common in stutterers to lose their train of thought as we focus on how we say things instead of what we’re saying. What helped was when I shifted my thinking to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
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commentr/StutterDec 9, 2023
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Try not to focus on speaking fluently because its working against you. You know you can speak fluent. What helped for me is to just mention it on beforehand like you did, maybe talk a bit about it. Wh...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2023
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She's going on a date with YOU, the stutter will just be along for the ride. When you asked her out, she said yes to YOU. When you talk, she's thinking about YOU. She didn't let your stutter get in th...

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commentr/StutterDec 9, 2023
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After the first couple blocks it'll get easier. Trust me, the fact she knows you stutter should be enough to help you....

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2023
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I'm so sorry that happened to you, I've had this happen more times than I can count on 1 hand both professionally and personal bullying. Did you tell them you stutter? I tell them, and I also let them...

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commentr/StutterDec 2, 2023
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I don’t say I’m working on it, but I do recommend disclosing this. I usually say ā€œI have a stutter so please let me know if you need me to clarify anything.ā€...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2023
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Hi, I have a stutter, and more specifically, usually it becomes very more proficient with my parents. There are also a couple friends that I stutter more with. I’m not necessarily scared of them (may...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2023
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I did this and landed the job I wanted! It can be hard because you don’t want to start at a ā€œdisadvantageā€ but I have been trying to disclose more often, being vulnerable can be your super power!...

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commentr/StutterDec 1, 2023
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If you start the interview out with, "hey just so you know, Im not just nervous, I have a stutter, it's something I'm aware of and always working on." If you say this right away it puts yourself at ea...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others