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commentr/StutterJan 31, 2017
3 points

I think I can see two things going on here. 1. He hasn't gotten over and accepted his stutter. He doesn't sound confident being able to talk about it. He should be open and willing to answer all your...

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commentr/StutterJan 31, 2017
2 points

I finally lost my stutter (for the most part) when I got in my late 40s. 60 now and hardly ever stutter. if you love him, accept him for what he is and not what you want him to be....

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
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commentr/StutterJan 31, 2017
2 points

Meh, I think that her heart is in the right place. I know that a lot of us here are extremely defensive about our disability, but it's hard to see how it looks like to other people. Stuttering really ...

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commentr/StutterJan 31, 2017
4 points

Look, I understand. Yeah of course you want your youth to enjoy. For all of my stuttering problems, I actually had an awesome run at my twenties with dating and girls and etc. But that all started whe...

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commentr/StutterJan 31, 2017
4 points

Every stutter is unique. My own has nothing to do with nerves. Is he nervous around your family, or does he just stutter more? Stuttering can make very little sense in when and how it manifests, and i...

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commentr/StutterJan 31, 2017
3 points

He has a stutter. If he didn't lose it growing up as a kid odds are he'll have it until he dies. He doesn't stutter with you because he's comfortable with you. He's at ease with you. Your family, not ...

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commentr/StutterJan 31, 2017
11 points

I understand your perspective but you need to realize you're coming from an ignorant place on this. Yes, some people have some level of success with therapy, techniques, life changes, etc., but for t...

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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2017
5 points

When I first went to speech therapy in Grade 6, the therapist told me there is no cure for stuttering. That killed me at the time, and I've been in your shoes and thought the exact same way. However...

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commentr/StutterJan 29, 2017
2 points

I wish that I was told beforehand how difficult it would be and that I would lose good friends due to my speech. I wish I could have known how much I would be thankful for for this stutter of mine, it...

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commentr/StutterJan 29, 2017
3 points

I don't know how this comes off but this is how I handle it. I don't say out loud that I stutter but I behave normally, I do my word replacement, I have my eye rolls, y'all the table when it gets bad...

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commentr/StutterJan 28, 2017
6 points

You should definitely read this essay called "Message to a Stutterer" by Joseph Sheehan. It talks about stuttering openly.. which is basically trying to accept yourself as someone who stutters. The mo...

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commentr/StutterJan 28, 2017
2 points

The focus on fluency just let to me trying to fight against something that's a part of me I can't change. We can't change that we stutter, but we can change whether or not it's a struggle or how painf...

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commentr/StutterJan 27, 2017
1 points

As a fellow stutterer, i know how this feels, since we cannot cure it, we have to work harder than the avg Joe to be on equal playing field. Work on things you CAN control, your physicality and especi...

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commentr/StutterJan 27, 2017
2 points

Being explicit and open about it is a pretty good way to show confidence and to gain people's awareness. And hell, if your date makes a big deal out of it or doesn't respect it, he or she is probably ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 27, 2017
2 points

> and it still bugs me really. This is the root of the problem. Why does it matter what other people think? Do you think how you feel about yourself matters in how other people react? Do you think...

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commentr/StutterJan 27, 2017
1 points

I've gotten that a lot, or "having a case of the Mondays?" or when people phone me and I stutter on the answer, they often ask if now's a good time or if they woke me up. At this point I kind of reve...

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commentr/StutterJan 25, 2017
6 points

Because you went head on with your fear, therefore growing personally. No one likes those, certainly not stutterers, but as with everything you do, you grow from it. ...

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commentr/StutterJan 24, 2017
9 points

As a professional public speaker with a stutter, I look forward to the opportunity to stutter confidently in these instances. ...

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commentr/StutterJan 22, 2017
9 points

They stutter and aren't portrayed as weak, unconfident or in that sort of negative way that people with stutters are. Theyre actually loved by many fans and play an important role in the normalization...

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postr/StutterJan 18, 2017
14 points

Let's be real here - stuttering is a problem

Let's be real here - stuttering is a problem Can't remember when exactly I joined this sub-reddit. What I do know is, since I've joined, there's been a lot of talk about people's problems with stutter...

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