As a fellow stutterer, i know how this feels, since we cannot cure it, we have to work harder than the avg Joe to be on equal playing field. Work on things you CAN control, your physicality and especially your confidence. When I'm on dates, i keep it cool and remain confidence as if the stutter is no big deal. Even though my dates notice my Stutter, it dosent bother them too much as long as i can make up for it other qualities.