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commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2020
18 points

It happens to me a lot. People will say, "Sorry sir, I think the connection is bad. Can you repeat that?" Then my anxiety goes through the roof, and I block even more. The cycle repeats itself until I...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightPositive Therapy Techniques
postr/StutterFeb 1, 2020
12 points

Severe Stutter and dating

Severe Stutter and dating Hi, I have been stuttering for as long as I could remember and it is very severe. Anyone have an advice on dating/relationships with a severe stutter? I’m a female in my mid-...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2020
3 points

[https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/cuk6h3/vicious\_cycle\_vent/](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/cuk6h3/vicious_cycle_vent/) Really? Because it seems like it was preventing you li...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2020
2 points

I think it's called exposition. It helps a lot in many situations because you became more confident. Someone says that stutter could born from an association between an event like a normal stuttering ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & NamesAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2020
5 points

Getting yourself into uncomfortable situations can be extremely helpful in many ways but only if you have thoughts that support and motivate you. For example if your thoughts are “Im going to be ok. ...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2020
2 points

> I constantly dwell on my blocks and the reactions of others, and it destroys my relationships. I feel so much anger and pain because of my stutter. I feel angry that it won't ever be possible to ...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2020
4 points

Hey man, i just recently got my first job at a retail food store. I couldn't even tell you how many applications i handed in, maybe over 20, I'm being dead serious. Every time they would call me I cou...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2020
2 points

You have to understand that, nobody cares, expect high school of course, but in adult life, trust me nobody gives a shit about you stuttering, a lot people got their own problems, I learned that nobo...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJan 31, 2020
14 points

confidence and belief systems

confidence and belief systems Hey everyone. This is the first time I've posted here and I felt compelled to just reach out to this community because I have never been close to another stutterer before...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2020
1 points

That happens to me too, but not to that extent. I think when you start feeling that you’re going to get stuck, just pause and start the sentence over or just pretend like you’re thinking. This way it ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2020
1 points

No problem. Something else that will help is presenting well and actually talking a lot. When someone meets a stutterer for the first time they're going to think something is wrong with them mentally....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2020
2 points

Keep pushing. The hardest part is over. Stutter through that phone call and make sure you show up to work on time. My advice is not to hold back a single thing you want to say. You won't be able to hi...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2020
2 points

Yeah this is all nerves. It'll get better. Definitely find a private place where you can tell your manager that you have a stutter. They undoubtedly know something is up already but qualifying their h...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2020
8 points

New environment, new colleagues. No wonder your stress level increased. Don't worry, try box breathing technique - it calms me down when i feel anxious....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJan 30, 2020
31 points

Finally got a job!

Finally got a job! After months of me going back and fourth with myself about getting a job, I finally got one. I've noticed my stuttering getting worse day to day. I'm blocking to a point that I can'...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2020
2 points

Thank you so much for this. I had a really rough day cause I had to read in front of my class and completely embarrased myself but this helped!...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2020
3 points

If I'm lightly buzzed off it then yes I find it helps me to relax slightly and get the words out easier but if I'm fully feeling the stronger psychoactive effects it can make it harder depending on th...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2020
5 points

I want to make friends too. I have social anxiety so I wont talk much. I don’t know, I’ll just put this out there. My skype id is chekkoo_...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2020
3 points

I think many people who stutter experience this phenomenon. Don’t know the science but I think it’s just being relaxed and not having to worry about anyone hearing me stutter. I think if you’re able t...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2020
2 points

it’s amazing how much of a mental game stuttering is for some people. it’s definitely like that for me. the fear of stuttering makes my stutter worse. when i would talk to someone i didn’t care if i s...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception