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postr/StutterMay 27, 2024
9 points

What does it mean to accept a stutter, and how can I do it?

What does it mean to accept a stutter, and how can I do it? I’m 20 and I’ve had a stutter my whole life, it’s a very mild stutter but that is partially because I’ve learned my own tricks to help with ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift+2 more
postr/StutterMay 27, 2024
136 points

Mindset! YOU MATTER!

Mindset! YOU MATTER! Saw this in another group, thought I’d share it here and spread the vibes! It’s all about your mindset! Don’t limit yourself....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2024
11 points

More than age, it's a thing of mindset and how you view your stutter. Getting older doesn't necessarily mean your stutter will get better unless you take steps to make it better. By that, I don't mean...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
postr/StutterMay 26, 2024
17 points

I stutter! and that's my Lingo! A refreshing approach to living with a stutter

I stutter! and that's my Lingo! A refreshing approach to living with a stutter Lets start this with a Question? -what if as a stutterer i was never meant to achieve fluency? -what if stutter is the na...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2024
2 points

Thanks for sharing your experience! The thing is.. I think that most stutterers are intolerant for the pressure that stuttering can occur, as you explained so well. I also think that most stutterers h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentPropositionality & Weight+1 more
postr/StutterMay 24, 2024
6 points

Let's discuss: Stuttering remission / How to achieve it?

Let's discuss: Stuttering remission / How to achieve it? I'm not saying a cure or complete recovery. But Stuttering can wax and wane - an example of mindfulness: some may achieve stuttering remissio...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2024
5 points

You are incorrect to state that this method of speech will lose it’s effectiveness over time. If that has been your experience, I can assure you, this is because of psychological reasons. Yes, it’s tr...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2024
2 points

Stuttering is often neurological, yes, but that does not mean that we can not tame it. It's not how you're hard-wired, just the hardware you have to learn to deal with; like the clutch of an old car, ...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2024
1 points

You deserve an amazing job because you’re qualified, passionate and an asset to their team. Your stutter doesn’t make you any less of those things. One thing that helped me was working on my confidenc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2024
2 points

I'm sure some here (including me sometimes) feel like we're damaged mentally and irreparable without medical treatment. But when you think about ex-stutterers, you realize they were in the same boat w...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2024
3 points

Dude, it's okay to feel that way sometimes but you really need to stop judging yourself. You probably are good at the areas that your professor and friends pointed out. I don't think they were saying...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
postr/StutterMay 19, 2024
8 points

Anyone else not get embarrassed from anything besides stuttering?

Anyone else not get embarrassed from anything besides stuttering? I think it’s one of the few positive things about my stutter, though I do still have to look at it with a glass half full perspective....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2024
4 points

I 100% know how it feels and I can feel the pain as well because Ive been through that before, many many many times. Hell, Ive har suicidal thoughts as a teenager too but honestly, Ive had to man up a...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2024
4 points

I suggest that you try to reframe the way that you think about stuttering from your current (qualitative) perspective to a new (quantitative) one. Instead of ‘really bad’ stuttering and ‘better fluent...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Mindset shiftSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2024
6 points

Bruh, I’m sorry you’re feeling this way. I’m not sure where all this anger is coming from but it doesn’t sound like it’s helping you to reach your goals. I hope you learn to realize that you’re more t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2024
4 points

I remember when I was young,I was scared talk with strange people and of course with girls,but time goes and you learn 1 thing,if you want something accomplished you should starting do something at so...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2024
1 points

So i should go out and start talking to strangers and do public speaking? Basically practice speaking as much as possible and chase better than communication skills rather than fluency...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & WeightMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2024
1 points

Hi! So first of all, I completely understand what you are going through. I have been through this myself. When I was your age, I wanted nothing more than to remove myself of my stutter, and I would h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2024
2 points

Hi! So first of all, I completely understand what you are going through. I have been through this myself. When I was your age, I wanted nothing more than to remove myself of my stutter, and I would h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2024
3 points

Yeah. The reason behind this post (said in a very weird, almost mean way) was there doesn’t need to be a reason behind your stutter. It’s a part of you; just live your life to the fullest....

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift