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commentr/StutterOct 20, 2017
1 points

Ignore them and move on. Your stutter is as much part of you as your skin color or your gender and there is nothing to be embarrassed about ...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2017
28 points

I would never wish a stutter upon anyone. I hate having a stutter. It is embarrassing. I hate the looks people give, or other people finishing my words, or the little smirks when it happens. When I wa...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & CareerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2017
8 points

When I get down about it, I try to remember there is more value in my thoughts than in how I present them. I hope you're okay OP...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2017
1 points

So you mean you keep replaying situations where you stutter in front of other people? I'm still working on this, but I try to adjust my views about the experience. In essence, I try to commend myself ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringAcceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2017
1 points

Oh, and I meant to add that, in my own experience, most people will largely not care about my stutter -- if they do, they have some deep insecurity that they are not dealing with well. I've had a ton ...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2017
3 points

Hey! Hang in there .. I have felt much of what you wrote on this post. I'm 30 now, and especially over the past few years, I've tried to slowly change my views about stuttering. I've done some speec...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2017
6 points

I feel like a human thesaurus and honestly, my stutter is probably why I became a writer. Some of us are great at manipulating language so we can speak more fluently. In the last 10 years, I don't try...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2017
2 points

I used to be pretty covert but I'm kind of getting tired of it and getting more comfortable with my stutter so I'm trying to do the first case and be alright with my stutter as much as possible!...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2017
1 points

Good luck! I know everybody's condition and severity is different. My stutter was quite severe as a child and basically just seemed to gradually (very gradually) erode away as I got older. There might...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Acceptance & PrideSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2017
9 points

If you know them: Laugh. Move on. If you do not know them: Laugh. Move on. So you just stuttered in front of people. Did you intend to stutter? Can you control when or how you stutter? The answer i...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2017
1 points

I usually (not always tho) do the first one with people that know that I stutter (which are my parents, my bro and some very close friends) but I pratically always do the second one with people that d...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2017
1 points

Generally, the larger the class, the less likely you will have to speak. It is mostly social sciences or liberal arts classes that make you speak, but I’ve had a small physics class I’ve had to speak ...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2017
6 points

In my experience, high school required more speaking than college. By that I mean that there's less pressure to speak by peers/teachers. It also depends on your classes. I am majoring in computer scie...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
School & Academic LifeAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2017
7 points

I attended the business school at my university so there were quite a few presentations. On the first day of class I would always advertise that I stutter so that the class would know. So during your ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PridePreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2017
2 points

For sure man. I really appreciate it! Today I started on just letting my self stutter around some of my family. I feel really awkward about it but at least I'm being candid....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2017
1 points

Some people get past their stutter, sure. We don't know what works for who, though. You should focus your efforts on being able to manage your stutter instead. Fluency is merely a limit case of manage...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Acceptance & PrideSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2017
3 points

This sure makes sense to me haha. Thank you for your response. One thing that I have only recently come to terms with is, like you mention, that my impediment will never completely go away and I need ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2017
3 points

Hey, I too am a stutterer, and have too had trouble being open with my family about the way I speak. At the end of the day, as horrid as it sounds, we will never be able to completely stop stuttering...

Social & RelationshipsTherapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersTherapy ExperiencesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2017
7 points

Update: It went pretty well, actually. Her family is really nice and understanding. Her niece and nephew pointed out my stutter, but they’re really little so it was kind of cute. The only person who d...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2017
3 points

Dude you got this. Don't stress. We've all been there. I recently had to meet some of my girlfriends family and they actually told her my stutter was cute and they wanted to hear me stutter more. It d...

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Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride