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commentr/StutterJan 26, 2021
3 points

After a quick hello/introductions I just start with "oh by the way, I stutter. It shouldn't have too much of an impact on this job, but thanks for your understanding". If I block on my name I say "Don...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2021
6 points

First and foremost, disclosing that you stutter is super important. It removes the elephant in the room, and the interviewer will have much more compassion for you. Even better: do it with a joke or p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling OthersMindset shift
postr/StutterJan 26, 2021
1 points

Automated Digital Interviews

Automated Digital Interviews I'm not sure how many of you are familiar with digital interview platforms like HireVue, but they have become a common part of the application process for entry-level prof...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJan 26, 2021
48 points

Stuttering with a mask

Stuttering with a mask Hey guys, I am a college student currently on campus. I have stuttered my whole life, but have found talking with a mask to be substantially more difficult than without. While ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterJan 26, 2021
1 points

I told my professor I had a mic issue so I don't have to introduce and embarrass myself in front of 50 other students.

I told my professor I had a mic issue so I don't have to introduce and embarrass myself in front of 50 other students. [deleted]...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2021
3 points

i still have my stutter and even today in my college class, i stutter everytime i ask a question (which i have to ask questions), it sucks. i do however have a major tip that has helped me, play music...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionEnvironmental Triggers
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2021
7 points

Same here. This new normal of virtual zoom, Skype and Microsoft Teams meetings has pushed us completely out of our comfort zone. I called my buddies and just practiced, and practiced, and practic...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2021
5 points

As wrong as it feel man, if you hide, I guarantee you'll have more regrets than if you don't. There's 2 different voices you can listen to. 1 being the voice of your stutter and your insecurities sa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2021
2 points

I wrote once in letter of motivation and it went well - I didn't have video interview, I just wrote :) I didn't get a job because of lack of my experiences, but I felt very good anyway :)...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2021
8 points

Dude, I don't want to be mean. But why do u run? Face it! Work on it. I too had problem with words starting and certain letter. But it wasnt 2 but it was b m p k t e i o u. Now is 0....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2021
2 points

To try and make this subject as concise as possible: Great metaphor saying a third party interjecting on a romantic date. When you should be focusing your attention and creating movements on your date...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Neurological & BrainAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2021
2 points

Just a tip. Don’t try to hold in your stutter. Just let it out....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2021
17 points

I was in your shoes. My solution: I asked friends, neighbors, and the occasional relative to do a mock interview with me. I practiced, and practiced and practiced until I was desensitized to th...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Preparation & RehearsalAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterJan 25, 2021
44 points

Not being able to find a job/venting

Not being able to find a job/venting This is a vent. I wrote (on Friday) about my job interview and how I think I messed it up because my stutter. In yes, I was right. Althoug I have skills, knowle...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2021
5 points

I agree that stuttering can be a gift in disguise. I used to see my stutter as curse. But after an extremely bad few months, I did a lot of soul-searching and realized that many good things have also ...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & SupportAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PridePersonal StoriesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2021
5 points

Good job in overcoming it! having a stutter in client facing roles is a big challenge. I also find that when I need to hide my stutter, Im pretty good at doing so unless my nerves are super high. It c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2021
2 points

I just had him as a professor last semester. I am still a year and a half out from graduating. His course did a great job giving historical (in some cases deep) perspective and highlighting various me...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Therapy ExperiencesAvoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2021
2 points

This is why I never write scripts for presentations, if I don't try to genuinently come up with the words as I go I just cant seem to get a "flow" going, and I'll keep getting blocks....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2021
2 points

Hey, I can definitely feel your pain. Every time I have to say something I always have to do a mini rehearsal. It's really exhausting stressing on every word before you say it. Here's something you c...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Preparation & RehearsalAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2021
2 points

I can agree with you that I stammer less when I try not to. When I reach a trigger word, I pretend to shrug it off like "eh this is easy" and it helps me getting through the word. Words come out smoot...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionPhysical Tension