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commentr/StutterSep 2, 2020
2 points

I recently graduated and I am lookinf for a job now. I have been in a few interviews, some of them went ok (I stutter a little, although I could not express myself the way I wanted), some of them went...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterSep 1, 2020
23 points

How to do well on interviews with a moderate stutter

How to do well on interviews with a moderate stutter I recently graduated college with a business management degree and I’ve been avoiding job interviews because of my anxiety and stutter. I feel like...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAdvice RequestsAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterSep 1, 2020
6 points

Stuttering, relationships,job

Stuttering, relationships,job Hi, I'm here seeking help from all of you. This is my story: I'm a teenager, who just got done with college and landed a job in a MNC. So I have a weird relationship w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightCycles & Randomness+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
1 points

That’s a valid point!!! I definitely don’t want to be treated differently because of my stutter :/ I think I’ll end up ending it if I feel any type of pity. Do you recommend I shouldn’t make a big dea...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
1 points

Awwwwwh! I’m so happy for you. I also joined this community last night and I’m loving all the support and feedbacks I’m getting. My fear is also it might be a turnoff for him but it’s better to find o...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
2 points

It sounds like your parents were overwhelmed. They may not have known how to deal with two different development issues. To be fair, the child that needs more attention will get the attention. It's no...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterAug 31, 2020
16 points

No Acting, Opening A Startup, LIFE

No Acting, Opening A Startup, LIFE Hey guys, it's my first post here. I'm 17 and I kinda have a severe level stuttering. It all started when I was 4. My father noticed that I couldn't even able to say...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+3 more
postr/StutterAug 31, 2020
27 points

Stuttering and corporate job

Stuttering and corporate job I have always stuttered a bit but until the age of 25, my stutter never held me back from any aspect in my life whether it was socialising, dating, career etc. I basically...

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Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
1 points

I feel you! My parents are like too. If you can you should definitely get a doctor note and get it sort it out. I guess zoom wouldn’t be thatt bad since you don’t really have to see these people in pe...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
1 points

I would do this but I don’t have a doctors note or anything. My parents don’t believe in mental health or anxiety so lol. Plus it’s just over zoom and I feel like that’s much better than doing a face...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
1 points

You’re right. It’s been mandatory for me to take a speech class to graduate both high school and now college. The high school one was absolutely horrid. It didn’t help me a single bit and if I’m B...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentTherapy Experiences
postr/StutterAug 31, 2020
16 points

My stutter got worse, can't accept it

My stutter got worse, can't accept it Hello, how you guys managed to accept your stutter and come out with it ? I work at the International school (Nord-Anglia), not a teacher, but i still have to ta...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
10 points

Dear u/dhavalr786, normally I don't comment on posts. But I feel you.. It hurts, you feel so alone. I can make a whole paragraph ..no.. a book on how shitty it is. But please try and keep socializing...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
10 points

Your post hits close to home and made me tear up a little. I also have my Masters in Counseling and the start of my career was rough. Job interviews were always super stressful, I definitely blew a fe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
8 points

To be honest, i did some deep thinking some time ago and i came to the conclusion that my stutter is responsible for who i am, my character was shaped with stutter, i would have been a completely diff...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterAug 31, 2020
3 points

Apps to stop stuttering

Apps to stop stuttering Hey guys I wondered if any of you use apps to prevent from stuttering as much as you usually do. If you guys do please tell me about them I wanna try some out !...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
1 points

I understand how this can make you feel more anxious, just knowing you have to present in front of people all the time. My only recommendation would be to keep practicing though. The only way to overc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
14 points

We've all been there. Your not alone. I know you're a qualified counsellor but have you thought about getting counselling yourself or seeing psychologists to help with depression? I know my stutter ...

Causes & VariabilityCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAdvice RequestsAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
10 points

I wish we could download the stuttering experience on a usb and temporarily transfer it to people so they know how hard it is. They don’t see/comprehend the inner battle/panic during a stutter/block...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterAug 31, 2020
46 points

I just had a job interview - it was awful

I just had a job interview - it was awful I have master degree in Counseling and I am looking for a job for almost a year now. I just had an interview and I stuttered a lot. I could not express myself...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more