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postr/StutterMar 20, 2023
31 points

“Mum will be sad” is the only reason that is keeping me alive till now

“Mum will be sad” is the only reason that is keeping me alive till now First، chill! I am not gonna hurt myself. but you know.. my problem is not how hard my life is. its more about the boredom, the e...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencySadness & HopelessnessAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2023
1 points

Hey i read your previous post on r/venting, and i just wanted to say although im a stranger, im here to listen if you'd like to DM me. I have other health problems too, i suffer from TMJ and im in ch...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathySadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2023
2 points

These are EXACTLY my thoughts and fears too! Thank you for sharing this! I hope and wish your kid has a calm and happy childhood! And a life full of meaning and love!...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathySadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2023
3 points

I have 1, she is almost 2yrs.. no signs of a stutter so far but I have always dreaded the possibility of having children who stutter. Knowing the pain, embarrassment and depression this thing has cau...

Parent & CaregiverEmotional Experience
Early Concern & OnsetParent Emotions & GuiltSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2023
1 points

I honestly find it hard to express myself to others because I literally stutter. So I tend to suppress my feelings all the time and tbh, I’ve been noticing a increase in my stuttering these days due t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
postr/StutterMar 14, 2023
27 points

My mom got mad at me for being frustrated over my stutter

My mom got mad at me for being frustrated over my stutter I even showed signs of me crying and it seemed like she didn't care. All she did was give me a lecture about practicing my speech and keeping ...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2023
1 points

I think we all get this way sometimes. Sometimes i get angry at myself even though i know its not my fault. Sometimes I'll be depressed for a whole day after one stutter flare where i needed to comm...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterMar 10, 2023
21 points

When all else fails

When all else fails I just had a really challenging work call with lots of stuttering. I am trying my best to not go down the typical self-loathing and shame spiral. I just want to go for a hike, or b...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2023
1 points

I think many young stutterers are struggling with the pain of stuttering and feeling so uncertain of their future. How can I be taken seriously when I stutter? Will I ever find companionship? If I...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Propositionality & WeightAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2023
6 points

I would have been a complete different person. I would have expressed my emotions and needs more. Also I would have chosen a different career path also I would not have suffered from anxiety and depre...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2023
10 points

I would definitely be a more outgoing and sociable person. I will consider a lot of other careers. I will have more friends. I won't have constant anxiety when I need to talk. The depression and sad t...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2023
2 points

Grow up, stop feeling so sorry for yourself and think about others. Yes having a stutter is shit but as long the people you love are happy then that’s all that should matter. Yes it may never get bett...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMar 8, 2023
52 points

I stopped stuttering for a day, by lowering my cortisol.

I stopped stuttering for a day, by lowering my cortisol. To begin with, I have been stuttering all my life, I am soon 31 years old, and I know well what it is. Earlier, i already wrote that [here](htt...

Causes & VariabilityMeds & SubstancesAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightHelpful Med OutcomesAnticipating Stuttering+3 more
postr/StutterMar 7, 2023
9 points

Developed stutter from bullying.

Developed stutter from bullying. TW: SH / Suicide, Trauma Dump I was an extroverted little girl, I would talk and play and laugh. I also have a genetic disorder known as tourette syndrome, which make...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalStigma & BullyingSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2023
1 points

Well for sure it seems like a curse to me as well as i have had no relationship,being lonely no one to talk to a constant fight with our own mind 24/7 even my parents never took my problem seriously. ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2023
6 points

Mate, I feel you. Stuttering has caused tons and tons of depression and very recently and even now still incredible jealousy over an absolute dream career that I can’t get simply due to my stutter in ...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessFrustration & AngerHope & Motivation
postr/StutterMar 6, 2023
19 points

Despair

Despair I know I've written a lot of times on this sub (i don't even know why I kind of feel guilty about it), but I'm starting to get into a hole and a despair I've never known in my life. One of th...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2023
1 points

Thanks bro 🙏. I’m thinking about signing up for toastmasters. And I feel very similar to you as well, some days I am on a roll, other days I collapse under the pressure to maintain that and I stutter...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2023
3 points

Thanks bro. I am having a really hard time accepting the fact that I will have to comprise parts of dream thought due to my stutter, it is making me depressed and envious of people who are living 100%...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2023
2 points

Hi, Tony, it’s Sue. I think it’s a wonderful opportunity to help those suffering and seeming to have lost hope. I stuttered but what I’ve read on this site breaks my heart. Individuals who pretend to...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessFamily Support & Conflict