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commentr/StutterJul 2, 2024
1 points

Yes. We started chatting on whatsApp. By that time, she was unaware of my stutter. We then started calling each other. I tried very hard to avoid my stammer on call, although I was making unusual ...

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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
3 points

I hear you and it is bullshit. No one persons struggle is more important. I think some of it is this sub. If you have an opinion then (perceivably) don’t say or word something right they will come for...

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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
2 points

Man, I do wish that the stuttering demographics were more equal. Because I’d looooove to date a girl who not only sympathized with my disability, but understood and empathized with it. One of my bigge...

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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
5 points

If I keep seeing many men making comments going out of their way to make women who stutter feel like their struggles aren't as real, yes I am going to bring it up. And dating is not the only struggle ...

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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
4 points

Ask your female friends if they would date someone with a severe stutter and ask the same to your guy friends....

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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
-1 points

>wouldn't they probably be caused by some societal standards that men themselves have put in place? And? Your point is? You think the men that made those standards give 2 shits about how it goes for ...

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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
2 points

I think it's historically, Men have been the ones to speak up and ask a girl out on a date. Girls usually let the man engage in that process. Like an conservative chivalry type thinking. So in that se...

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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
2 points

I’ve said this several times in here but… My daughter’s ex is an ex con leprechaun with one of the most profound stutters I’ve ever heard and that little bastard is …. well he be fuckin. They’re not ...

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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
6 points

I know it's anecdotal, but I'm just comparing my experience with those of my dad and male cousin. We all have a similar degree of stutter, and I can easily tell that their social lives have been harde...

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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
-4 points

Eh, maybe our definition of easier is different but I do both things that you mentioned so I'm not sure what you're on about lol...

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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
4 points

Many PWS found their companionship ( if not so romantic) later in their life. When people lower their bars and looking for human warmth, mutual respect and caring....

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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
5 points

>"A woman could just seat pretty and make her picks from all the men approaching her." I’ve always hated this sentiment because it’s such a bad take rooted in insecurity...

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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
7 points

That last part is so ridiculous. Where I am, I’m average looking by Latina standards, but that doesn’t stop guys in my uni that I’m interested in from walking away when they notice my stutter. Doesn’t...

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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
2 points

Most women are approached by men, approaching means engaging in speech, if you are being approached it means that the person already has an interest in you which means less need to perform. Therefore,...

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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
8 points

As a guy, i can tell you with 100% certainty that this sort of comment comes from sexism. There's a lot i could talk about it - how a lot of it is structural, and men don't even notice they are being ...

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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
3 points

Its the truth tbh in the dating world at leaat. I'd love to try and talk to girls more, but I can barely even get the first few words out without looking like a creep or freak because of this fucking ...

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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
2 points

Yes! Been with my wife since 9th grade. Insecurities from my stutter sucked, my wife actually finds it cute which I appreciate it, still hard to come across and “cute” and “helpless” at work. But we h...

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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
7 points

victim mentality can really sabotage people in the long run but I’d like to experience dating a women who stutters, would def be a peak human experience for me but I’ve only ever met one and that was ...

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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
21 points

"The "burden" society places on men is bigger than that of women. The burden of performance on men is greater than that of a woman." Yes, men have burdens placed on them by society, but so do woman. ...

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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
-22 points

Yes.. stuttering is not a fun experience for either sexes. I am not dismissing the female experience but I understand why a guy will argue that stuttering is worse for men than women. The "burden" soc...

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