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commentr/StutterJul 14, 2024
1 points

I’m sorry you believe this. We block because of shame, so being yourself is the only real way to sustainably reduce blocking. This is the advice of countless SLP’s who specialize in dysfluency and...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2024
3 points

Yeah I feel you. I really struggle with W words so i find it hard to ask questions. I recently started an internship and everyone’s busy doing their own thing but I wish I was able to just ask simple ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesOverthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2024
2 points

So basically what ever "technique" we use it should be favoured towards "forgetting out stutter" otherwise that technique is not for use right? Example: when I'm Exhilarated to talk I speak fluently...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2024
2 points

Thank you for your post. Last couple months I accepted my stutter issue although, it started 12 year ago. Struggling everyday but i am trying my best. I think by now it’s not just a speech problem, it...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2024
2 points

Summary of his strategies: see [this screenshot](https://imgur.com/ojONLZV). ([1](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/ykyoxs/tips_to_improve_stuttering_according_to_the_book/)) I think these wo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionTrauma & Psychological+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2024
2 points

Additionally, even non-stutterers often word-substitute, tense, prolong, do repetitions etc etc. So, I absotely don't view them as a problem or any kind of obstacle or to be avoided. They are perfectl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterJul 12, 2024
2 points

I try my absolute hardest not to. I usually succeed but the longer I know the person they will eventually notice so it’s pretty short lived when I can :/...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2024
4 points

I usually don't stutter when I first meet people, so I guess I hide it unintentionally, but I always tell them just so they know that I sometimes stutter when I speak to avoid any kind of "jokes" or a...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterJul 12, 2024
6 points

Do you allow yourself to stutter around people you just met?

Do you allow yourself to stutter around people you just met? I have a habit of trying to hide my stutter around new people, I often do it without even thinking about it. I'm trying to make an effort t...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2024
1 points

**Second reply:** This is my attempt to shed some light on the definition: "justification" and "need to reduce factors". I think that negative experiences can increase our defensive mechanism to say...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2024
3 points

Yesss agreed! Sometimes it just feels good to get it out after all the blocking and stuttering. Who cares what people thing 😎...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2024
2 points

Can you elaborate? Do you mean fear and anxiety of stuttering? If so... That's no longer part of my disfluency. I learned to speak fluently not by overcoming my stutter. It was closer to learning to ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2024
7 points

Yes. I think it is helpful as long as you stick with it. By doing this you’re releasing the fear and anxiety of speaking that developmental stutterers get as we get older. When you’re little you just ...

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commentr/StutterJul 12, 2024
1 points

I personally really like talking about my stutter. I can’t hide it and in my experience not many people know much about stuttering so I try to be open about it and answer questions if they have any. I...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2024
3 points

I’d guess you have a covert stutter, where you have more blocks than repetitions? You probably avoid/switch words to get through a block? Saying your name and other unavoidable words are *noticeably* ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2024
1 points

Basically, this threshold mechanism (based on distorted beliefs) - allows/prevents the release of speech motor plans. It's a defensive mechanism e.g., if we feel the need to speak more perfect or erro...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2024
3 points

Not really, but also if I speak you’ll know I have a stutter, so disclosing it doesn’t really matter given that… it’s obviously I have one if you speak to me for any length of time....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterJul 11, 2024
10 points

Does it feel weird to yall if you disclose your stutter ?

Does it feel weird to yall if you disclose your stutter ? I have mix feelings about this but I don't think disclosing your stuttering is a bad thing but I feel like it makes me different in a bad way....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterJul 9, 2024
0 points

How to enter flow state to stop stuttering bc of anxiety?

How to enter flow state to stop stuttering bc of anxiety? I vividly remember a presentation I did towards to end of my senior year of hs where I just entered a flow state and spoke perfectly for the e...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightSituational Variability+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
10 points

I would encourage you to get help. There are a lot of crisis helplines (ironically difficult for us to use) that could help you to reframe the problems you are facing. You are holding down a job whic...

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