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commentr/StutterJan 15, 2024
7 points

There were a couple of moments in my life when my stuttering completely went away for a couple of days, at those days I was the most talkative guy in my group. Even when I am chatting online with some...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Cycles & RandomnessAuthenticity vs. MaskingQuality of Life
postr/StutterJan 15, 2024
21 points

We have been fighting the wrong battle.

We have been fighting the wrong battle. Ever wondered why you are fluent when speaking to yourself in a room but stutter when speaking to a real person? Its bcs you can speak but cant communicate. Thi...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Quality of LifeFluency TechniquesHope & Motivation+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2024
5 points

I get this completely and feel so bad for you, the easiest way to get around this especially with a stranger who’s not going to think anything of it as they are busy would be to drop the ‘a’ if you’re...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2024
8 points

Yeah a stutter is not the worst disability to have, but it sure can be the most humiliating...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentQuality of Life
postr/StutterJan 14, 2024
86 points

I had the most humiliating moment of my life

I had the most humiliating moment of my life Today I went to the bank to ask for an account statement paper, I approached the banker and was about to say "I want an account statement" but suddenly I g...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & StutteringSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & StoppagesQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMemesJan 14, 2024
2 points

You just spoke for everyone 💯. You would still hate it like anyone else but the stutter makes it 100x worse. Dont worry about the voice bcs i just asked my sister and she said she doesn't listen to h...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentQuality of Life
postr/StutterJan 14, 2024
24 points

Is anyone else completely uninterested in speech therapy?

Is anyone else completely uninterested in speech therapy? I've tried it in the past and I've found it to be unhelpful. It just gives me more to think about when I'm trying to talk, which makes me more...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Therapy ExperiencesUnhelpful Therapy TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
postr/StutterJan 14, 2024
26 points

How are you able to have a normal life?

How are you able to have a normal life? I have been stuttering since I was a child, as a defense mechanism, I isolated myself my whole life because of it. Which obviously had a major effect on my m...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencySadness & HopelessnessQuality of Life+3 more
postr/StutterJan 13, 2024
1 points

Stuttering at work

Stuttering at work Hi I always had a stutter. Sometimes it was more severe (especially in middle school) but never let it stop me from normal life. Now I work over the phone in customer service and I ...

School & WorkSpeech & StutteringCauses & Variability
Employment & CareerBlocks & StoppagesSeverity & Fluctuation+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2024
2 points

I think he’s a great communicator! Nothing to “fix” here. I really just worry about him getting a teacher who doesn’t understand his communication needs and kids teasing him, which goes back to self-e...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2024
4 points

Try to think of it like this: the big picture goal is for the child to communicate effectively. No adverse anxiety about communication, avoidance, discomfort, or barriers. People often think of "fluen...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideMedicalization / NeurodiversityQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2024
3 points

Started in 2nd grade a kid mercilessly bullied me to the point of tears in the back of the bus. I was sobbing wailing and everyone was laughing at me. Most recently tho I was working as a delivery dri...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2024
4 points

Yes everyone thinks I’m a dick and not interested sometimes ik saying thank u or your welcome is gonna be too hard I stil try but I’ve had people walk away while I am trying to finish...

Speech & StutteringSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesQuality of LifeShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJan 9, 2024
7 points

Can I be successful as a personal trainer who stutters?

Can I be successful as a personal trainer who stutters? Hey all, I don't know if I'm just suffering more than usual today or what or if I'm overthinking. I think I'm pretty resentful of just how isola...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2024
2 points

Positively I never speak unnecessarily I guess, never say anything rude or distasteful bc I have to think abt what I’m trying to say Negatively Every part of my life...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
postr/StutterJan 9, 2024
11 points

I hate school

I hate school Idk if its just the Norwegian school system who does this, but being talkative at class is so important that even if I get A’s in my written assignments they will still drag it down to a...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeStigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2024
2 points

If we logically think about it, living with stammering is much better than not existing in this world at all. Whatever challenges it has, I am glad I have the luxury to breath and to think and to have...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2024
3 points

This is going to be me tomorrow, I shouldn’t wish on my downfall but I think my partner may see me as some slow and selfish person for not helping her presentate, I’m sick of presentations as I look s...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2024
2 points

I am living with it. Mine is very severe when i can’t say a word without blocking, my blocks last for 10 to 20 seconds with tense face and shut eyes its very embarrassing but i have become completely...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesPhysical TensionShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2024
7 points

Unironically, I feel as if living as a mute would actually be ideal for very severe stutters. It's totally possible to function in society as a mute, and probably less stressful than battling with you...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life