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commentr/StutterApr 13, 2024
3 points

Okay, so there are quite a few people here who are very confident in saying that you should never finish sentences for others, that it's extremely disrespectful, 100% certain, etc. My insight, and of ...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2024
1 points

My strategy: I have a card that basically says that sometimes I sound like yelling but I'm not angry, and sometimes I frown for no reason and that I have a speech impediment. I show the card when I se...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2024
8 points

Have you disclosed that you have a stutter? Tripping on words can seem like nervousness instead of an actual stutter. ...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
1 points

Hi, I have a stutter but I have not experienced this particular thing that you talked about. This is very obvious I know, but would it help to have an honest, open conversation with the people who a...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
3 points

True, Right now i am giving this great advice, But i myself hesitate to talk around people. But now i am quite more free and can open conversation and approach people. With little or no stuttering. ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
3 points

Hi! I suggest that you message your teacher and let her know you have a stutter. But instead of asking her right away if you can skip reading, explain to her how worried and nervous you are about it ...

Community & SupportParent & CaregiverSocial & Relationships
Advice RequestsHome SupportSchool/Clinical Advocacy+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
1 points

I think it really helps to open with "I have a speech disability". Maybe even "I have a speech disability, so if it's hard to understand me sometimes, it's not because I'm nervous. I'm actually very e...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Access & RightsDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
2 points

In my last job interview, I knew I had what they wanted, and I had been rejected already by one department due to my stutter. The guy even told the hiring department he thinks my speech will be a safe...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling OthersPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
9 points

My true personality is still a goal. I have made so much progress and as long as you have a vision, it’s possible. Take steps, no matter how big or small, towards that vision and personality. Being op...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
6 points

My (38M) wife (38F) and I met through the dating site OKCupid. We've been married for 5 years, together for 11, and now have a daughter. She says she never notices it, even when I definitely do and wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
16 points

Online dating for me. I approached people in college and just stuttered through it and got a few girlfriends that way. The reality is most people don’t really care about your stutter in the way th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2024
4 points

If you’re getting interviews, for some of them try disclosing your stutter. Have an answer ready for why you’re a good fit for the role despite of your stutter (you’ve grit and determination and you’r...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2024
3 points

I completely understand, I'm a moderate stutterer around my fiancee, a very bad stutterer around everyone else, and can't get a single word out whenever I have to present something, literally. But hon...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
School & Academic LifeEmployment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2024
8 points

I’m 24 and am still kinda shy at first but when I get talking that helps pull me out of my shell, I’m a people person so I like meeting new people. It helps to try and be outgoing and push yourself in...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2024
1 points

First off, do not attempt to get a job that requires you to constantly talk. That should be obvious. Unless you plan on putting in the work to improve your speech before you do. I have been a little ...

School & WorkCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2024
2 points

I used to dread phone calls, but now they don't bother me because I can make whatever face I need to while I'm trying to get my words out. Disclosing this before you relay your message might help as w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2024
3 points

Try messaging them on their social media accounts and let them know that you have a stutter so you couldn’t make a phone call...

Social & RelationshipsTherapy & Professional
Disclosure & Telling OthersSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2024
2 points

I know to do this but I only end up disclosing at the end of the interview when they ask if there are any more questions I have....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2024
2 points

i encourage disclosing immediately and often. this way you have greater autonomy and stuttering will be something both you and the listener will be expecting. ...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 5, 2024
2 points

Be upfront about your stutter. I usually say something along the lines of: “Before we start, I wanted to let you know that I have a stutter. It may make itself apparent during this conversation, and ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others