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commentr/StutterMay 7, 2021
1 points

Do you personally stutter too? Because I hate speech therapists because they just didn't seem to ever work. Like I could talk fluently in front of them. But calling that cute girl, I would stumble on ...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Seeking TherapyAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2021
1 points

I'll buy the book. Just very briefly, how did the book help you? Because I've seen so many blog posts that say to speak VERY slowly or sing and what not. But in real life, everyone knows that's imprac...

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Advice RequestsAnxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2021
1 points

I'd suggest you consult a speech therapist or a psychiatrist since you can speak "spontaneously" to further understand why you struggle with "particular words"....

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Advice RequestsAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2021
1 points

I also know I am capable and intelligent as I know stuttering is also really uncomfortable to hear from others, so I hate pityness while I just want honest people. But yes maybe you hit the spot, I o...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterMay 6, 2021
23 points

Hasn't the same thing ever happened to you?

Hasn't the same thing ever happened to you? So I just had an oral test, roman law (yay very interesting) and I really studied a lot for this but today I felt like my teacher asked me the easiest quest...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2021
2 points

Hey! My mother tongue is Hungarian but I study EE at a German university and of course I also use English a lot. I found that when I'm content it's easier to go with the flow, but when I'm talking nor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2021
2 points

thank you a lot, i like to talk a lot but when i’m truly happy i stutter less. i have a speech for my last english assignment and my class mates already laugh at me when i asnwer short questions...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterMay 5, 2021
9 points

Is there a video/call conference group for stutterers?

Is there a video/call conference group for stutterers? I've been feeling very depressed lately as while I'm progressing in my career, I'm having to interact with more people. But my stutter is embarra...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & HopelessnessFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2021
4 points

Everybody is vulnerable to judgements when meeting someone. Whether they are fat, skinny, short, tall, have a lisp, stutter, twitch, etc. Everyone has something they could feel vulnerable about and us...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2021
2 points

Good to hear this. Well yeah, I'm not a native speaker of English, so people tend to not judge. And Goodluck 👌🏻...

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Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2021
1 points

Hi! I'm a native Chinese speaker who (obviously) also speaks English! Maybe when I was learning English, I stuttered in it (I couldn't recall. It was so long ago) But now that I'm fluent in English, ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2021
1 points

I speak Swedish and and I have a pretty mild stutter. But when I try to speak English my stutter increases a lot. I think it's because I'm not as confident. I stutter more when I'm in a situation wher...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterMay 5, 2021
95 points

Mindset(s) that saved my social life, having a severe on and off stutter.

Mindset(s) that saved my social life, having a severe on and off stutter. How I fixed my social life with a severe (on and off) stutter. I'm writing this today because I know the pain. I know the pa...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2021
1 points

Some things definitely require medication to get healed though. I will say though that benzos are technically made for people in very very desperate situations. The entire point of a approving medic...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2021
3 points

Everybody with stuttering try that...but the thing that makes blocks is FEAR....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2021
2 points

I'm sorry that you're going through this. There is no magic cure, but medicine can help quite a lot, my man. Maybe see your doctor and ask him what he can do. Benzos usually help, but they are pretty ...

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Anticipating StutteringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2021
1 points

I think I would definitely try this, but I’m nervous about it. I think my teacher would view me as not as smart or lesser. I know this is just in my head, but the way People view me is a wall I have t...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2021
2 points

This comment means a lot to me. I play Cello in school and guitar out of school, so I completely understand what you are saying. Those first couple years kinda sucked, but I feel better in my musical ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Situational VariabilityStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2021
1 points

I’ve thought about this before actually, and I don’t know if I can’t do it. I’m really concerned with how my teachers view me, and pretty much everyone for that matter. I think it would lower their op...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2021
4 points

I'm so sorry you (and the lot of us) have to go through this. It feels quite unfair when others can talk anything and everything they like without breaking a sweat. I can definitely feel you there. ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of LifeFluency Techniques