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commentr/StutterJul 13, 2021
3 points

Been exactly where you are I think stuttering can make even the most outgoing of personalities shy. Knowing we have to stutter in front of a group, and the associated dread, can be killer. I think it ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterJul 13, 2021
31 points

Back to school anxiety

Back to school anxiety I began my senior year of high school last week, and my first class of the day is English. This is a huge problem for me because I’m in a very tough spot. My stutter fluctuates ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic LifePositive Therapy Techniques
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2021
1 points

Unfortunately that’s called Speech Anxiety so you may want to work on your speech in therapy to help and then slowly voluntarily expose yourself to fearful speaking situations. Using the methods shoul...

Emotional ExperienceMeds & SubstancesCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHarmful Med OutcomesFluency Techniques
postr/StutterJul 13, 2021
2 points

Medicine for relief

Medicine for relief Guys, Can you tell me a good medicine for reducing anxiety during stammering and anxiety due to anticipation of talking? Please help...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Medication InquiriesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2021
1 points

Stuttering is heavily exacerbated by anxiety and fear. As those things are eliminated moments of stuttering get shorter. I am not saying it happens overnight. It is a complicated process that takes...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 11, 2021
3 points

Oral presentation tips

Oral presentation tips Iv got an oral presentation in a week. I’m in my final year of school so it’s really important. I’m really stressed out about my stutter and pausing when I get stuck. I told my ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentPositive Therapy Techniques
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2021
2 points

I can read out loud from a book to other people no probs, yet I can hardly string a sentence together talking with anyone face to face, even with people I should feel relaxed around like my partn...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Situational VariabilityAnxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2021
1 points

It took me until my 30s to accept my stutter - I'd obsess over it when I was younger. Now the focus is all about getting the things done that I need to. I used to have panic attacks about making ph...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2021
2 points

When I manage some difficulty, I feel happy and strong, but for a moment i again feel fear for something else. I feel that I'm in horrible circle...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2021
1 points

Self presentations are one of my most dislike things. But sometimes when I talking about something intereseting, the stuttering is less difficult. But I afraid so much about possible confrontation wit...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Propositionality & WeightAnxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2021
1 points

You are right, when i used to going to the sport club i met a lots of people and they didn't care about my speech, we had really good time and talks so much. But talking in work it's different I think...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Strategic Swearing/CursingAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2021
1 points

Never tried this, could be worth a shot, don't you still get that panicky , heart beating fast moment waiting to be served? It's totally worse if there's a que behind me, knowing they are all loo...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
postr/StutterJul 10, 2021
6 points

Stuttering going away for a long time?

Stuttering going away for a long time? Just found this sub so I hope I do this right but I have question. I had a really bad stutter when I was young and was put into a speech therapy class to help me...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2021
-4 points

You can get speech therapy that will help you not worry about stuttering. You don't **have** to worry about it...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Advice RequestsAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2021
2 points

First off, I'm pretty sure you have AvPD stemming from your stutter. A lot of us are this way, maybe join a group near you for group therapy or something of the sort. And definitely try to eventually ...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking TherapyAcceptance & Pride+1 more
postr/StutterJul 10, 2021
42 points

The thing I hate the most about stuttering is how mentally exhausting it is

The thing I hate the most about stuttering is how mentally exhausting it is I don't know if this is just me but it feels like almost every time I speak, I need to use a lot of mental energy. Like the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2021
4 points

Thanks for your sharing. I see a lot of my experiences in your story. Looking back elementary and junior high were a relatively happy time in my life but stuttering was a consistent stressor. I rememb...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+3 more
postr/StutterJul 10, 2021
38 points

I’ve never been so lonely, but I have no energy to change. In my head, every social interaction is something to be avoided at all costs. Here’s just a little venting and some backstory of my life experiences so far.

I’ve never been so lonely, but I have no energy to change. In my head, every social interaction is something to be avoided at all costs. Here’s just a little venting and some backstory of my life expe...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2021
1 points

I’m the same way and have block stutter. I wouldn’t mention that you stutter because they are going to notice it anyway. (Makes you much nervous) If you already have a job, go in there like you don’t...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJul 10, 2021
7 points

How to deal with social problems caused by stuttering?

How to deal with social problems caused by stuttering? Hi everyone, as almost everyone who stutters, I got really annoying social problems, for example: -Difficulties with girls and, in general, in s...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & CareerDating & Romance+1 more