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commentr/StutterNov 17, 2021
1 points

For me, my stuttering is directly caused by my fear of stuttering. When I am in a context where I am not worried at all about stuttering, I rarely stutter. I can sometimes prevent my stutter by active...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2021
5 points

Im currently studying finance and have some of the same fears as OP. What do you do to curb the stutter and anxiety in high stress situations such as closing deals with clients? What exact job do you ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2021
5 points

Similar experience during and soon after college. Moderate to severe stuttering during interviews, especially phone interviews. I somehow get more nervous and wound-up if I can’t see them in the eyes....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterNov 17, 2021
5 points

How to deal with depression and anxiety due to stuttering?

How to deal with depression and anxiety due to stuttering? I’m a person who stutters and I’m currently dealing with depression and anxiety from being a person who stutters and it’s affecting my life…....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2021
3 points

I wish. My brain automatically shuts down even more in social situations. So I even stutter on quick single words :|...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2021
2 points

Thank you! When it was almost my turn, I couldn’t control my breathe and I just wanted to disappear. It was frustrating tbh 😭...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
postr/StutterNov 16, 2021
13 points

Finished my 2 out of 3 presentations

Finished my 2 out of 3 presentations On my first presentation for my research paper i was so nervous, i messed up on the first half i had too much sudden silence but i managed to be calm on the second...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringStress & Fight/FlightPropositionality & Weight+2 more
postr/StutterNov 16, 2021
37 points

Having a different outlook on presentations the older I get.

Having a different outlook on presentations the older I get. Yesterday I did an online presentation in an international platform. It was underwhelming. I took a lot of effort to prepare but during pre...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2021
5 points

19M with somewhat severe stutter. Was homeschooled and am socially awkward most of the time. Have been going on 2-3 dates per month on average since being 18 (most of which were from online dating app...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Advice RequestsAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2021
9 points

Yea, I think because we often feel socially anxious about our stuttering, our mind is telling us that it is a long time to protect us from social judgement. Our mind is telling us, “hurry up and finis...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightCycles & RandomnessAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2021
3 points

Thanks for your advice 😊 actually today I had an online presentation, since I was panicked, my eyes just kept looking around nonstop 😭 like it’s hard for me to lock eyes with someone. I planned to p...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterNov 15, 2021
28 points

How do severe stutterers even get a girlfriend?

How do severe stutterers even get a girlfriend? I'm 28 now, and all of my life I've been harshly rejected due to my crippling stutter, looks, and awkwardness. How does one even go about changing it at...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2021
2 points

Interviews are not nightmares and you gotta bear it in mind. Just say what you want to say and don't cork yourself up bc you stutter. Actually you can try self-closure which advices you to claim stut...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2021
2 points

Don't try to finish their sentences and eye contact is important- they don't want to feel like they are losing you...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2021
3 points

Keep good eye contact. This might not be easy at first, but it’s very important. Listen to the content, ignore the delivery…...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2021
3 points

I’m a software engineer with a medium stutter. I hate interviews because I’m so scared and anxious that my fitness tracker starts to alarm me to calm down 5 mins before the interview starts. But sti...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterNov 15, 2021
5 points

COVID impact on stuttering?

COVID impact on stuttering? Hi you guys. I feel like my stuttering has gone from moderate to terrible since the start of COVID. I was inside with my family so I spent a lot of time talking to family m...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2021
1 points

Fammm ik ur pain lol I literally just farted sixth form and meeting new ppl has been a pain but ppl are understanding...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2021
3 points

1, give them ample time. Don't pressure them with a time constraint 2, make them feel comfortable 3, give them the option to write/type 4, give them water 5, don't interrupt them even if you know ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2021
5 points

You're already doing well just thinking about how they will be taking the situation. Just stay patient and keep neutral body language. I'm sure prefacing the interview with a "you mentioned your stutt...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others