Search

commentr/StutterJul 19, 2019
3 points

I sometimes feel like this but you have to look at the value you bring to the conversation. I mean suppose you were with a group of people and this group was discussing a famous musician. Better yet, ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Propositionality & WeightHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2019
1 points

Hm, couple of remarks here. 1: What's wrong with "pity"? In so far as it's a rather common reaction to someone being in a bummer situation, I don't see why you'd necessarily be against it? 2: You sh...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2019
1 points

You may be right. I know she wishes the pain could go away which is why she's open to trying anything to make that a possibility. It may also be how she said these words too. First time there was a sa...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2019
1 points

I know she's not projecting. She has been to a few NSA meetings with me. She knows how I feel about my stutter. CheshireUnicorn said it best: My mom wants to minimize the hardship, not just for me but...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2019
2 points

This! This is probably the most likely reason. I am not a parent but I can imagine it is the role of all parents to protect their children. I guess until I am a parent myself, I won't know what this r...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2019
1 points

Sounds like she's projecting. It's a pretty unhealthy and I'm sorry she's putting her own beliefs and fears about stuttering on to you. I would go with her to an NSA support group meeting if you have...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2019
4 points

You said this was the 2nd or so time your Mom has said something like this.. and the first time was very emotional. Your mom loves you and she loves you regardless of your stutter by she realizes it c...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2019
1 points

You could ask her why she said it. She probably feels responsible for your stutter and she thinks she knows how it affects you and wishes she could take away the negatives of how it affects you. May...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2019
22 points

I think it would have been different if she said "I wish there was a cure. I hate how my child stutters." Instead she is saying she doesn't want you to suffer. Shes empathizing with you, which show...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2019
1 points

Hi, the same with me. I can give a presentation for as long as I want, without the feeling that my stuttering is holding me back. I think it's because I'm speaking loudly and articulate the words prec...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & WeightFluency Techniques+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2019
3 points

>You can't cure it I think we can cure it. Because when we're alone we're speaking normally. It means we have no problem about talking with anyone. We have a problem about trusting ourself....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2019
5 points

To dovetail, there are many ways to work on self confidence. It helps a lot of you take care of your physical appearance: shower, exercise, eat right, even go thrifting for a new outfit. It always hel...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2019
10 points

I used to until I started reevaluating my self-worth. We are the biggest critics of ourselves. Our thoughts are just as valuable as anyone else's. Once I truly stopped worrying about what other people...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2019
2 points

Yes. Look, I have been trying to speak like this for a few months now. A FEW MONTHS. You need to be consistent to view results. I've argued against my therapist for such a long time and now I can fina...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2019
4 points

I actually started working out because I thought it would help with my stutter. It didn't but I feel more confident...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2019
8 points

Not my stutter, but it helped my confidence which in turn helps with not avoiding talking situations....

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2019
7 points

I'm 26(today😅). Been stuttering ever since I remember. The frequency of my stuttering has reduced dramatically, but there are incidents when it happens(usually when I'm introducing myself, or on a ph...

Speech & StutteringCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Onset & Life-Stage ChangesSeverity & FluctuationFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2019
2 points

Thanks for the kind and informative answer! I'll do my best to encourage him, I hope to see him grow to be more accepting of it. He's a cool kid so I just want him to see that too!...

Emotional Experience
Hope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2019
3 points

You're definitely not an asshole, just misguided in my opinion. You're trying to help and you actually seem to care, which is more than most people I've met in my life. Stuttering can be improved. Yes...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Positive Therapy TechniquesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2019
1 points

no prob man. my family was great about it growing up because my dad stuttered too. he mostly grew out of his but i haven't so far. as for relationships with girls, it hasn't hindered that at all, exce...

Causes & VariabilitySocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Genetic & Family FactorsDating & RomanceHope & Motivation