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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2022
1 points

When someone's stutter is so severe as to be disabling, as mine was for many years, then it is akin to a physical disability. The advice to 'just' whatever completely ignores context like state of mi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2022
1 points

I really appreciate this comment a lot. I'm almost 15 FYI. It's just that talking like the normal would help me unleash my true potential with confidence. Guess I'm unlucky....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterMar 6, 2022
45 points

“Just talk” is the worst bit advice I have ever heard

“Just talk” is the worst bit advice I have ever heard I have only ever heard this from people who don’t stutter and it makes sense why. “Just talk” implies the reason I can’t get the word I’m trying t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2022
2 points

Yes. For example, you're asking about the different types of stuttering and if stuttering tends to disappear with time. Most people here suffer from developmental stuttering, but your character stut...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Neurological & BrainTrauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterMar 6, 2022
17 points

Joining the model UN school conference

Joining the model UN school conference Next week I'mma represent my class in the model UN school conference and I'll discuss sexualities. I'm really excited about it and stressed at the same time, I ...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Public SpeakingAnxiety & Social JudgmentAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2022
1 points

I think about the word before I say it and I try to speak a bit slower. It usually happens when I’m anxious about something. The only thing I can’t say is my government name because I got bullied for ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2022
4 points

If you’re up for it, I would try to tell your lecturer beforehand. In my experience whenever I’m around people who I’ve told about my stutter I feel a lot less anxious/pressured because they won’t be ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2022
1 points

stuttering and asthma are two separate things that don’t necessarily overlap. however, anxiety can cause asthma attacks. what’s most likely happening is that the anxiety your friend experiences around...

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commentr/StutterMar 5, 2022
1 points

Bro six months ago i was in a similar situation. I didn't tell my teacher about it. I managed to present my project, but my anxiety was huge on my voice and i suffered from speech blocks. After that p...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
postr/StutterMar 5, 2022
30 points

Does anyone have a massive problem with speaking way to fast and not forming words properly?

Does anyone have a massive problem with speaking way to fast and not forming words properly? This is something that according happens more than stuttering for me. I definitely have social anxiety from...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentTherapy Experiences
postr/StutterMar 5, 2022
9 points

Uni presentation

Uni presentation Hey guys, so I have a presentation for university coming up in the next 10 days and I’m already feeling anxious about it. I’m going to be doing it with 2 of my friends who already kno...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPublic SpeakingAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2022
1 points

You don't need to respond to every comment directed at you. We stutterers have very high sensitivity towards what others say about our speech - So much so that we start obsessing over it. we dont real...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2022
11 points

Those people are trying to help you in their own weird way. It's what extroverts do... They want you to join the conversation. It's fine to be quiet, but it's not Ok to let fear rule your life. There...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterMar 4, 2022
2 points

Is the why-thought about why you stutter important? (in your experience with your stammering)

Is the why-thought about why you stutter important? (in your experience with your stammering) **Is the why-thought about why you stutter relevant? (choose one or more options)** 1. No, because the wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMar 3, 2022
38 points

Accept your stutter

Accept your stutter For me it was more so a ‘block’ I knew what I wanted to say I just couldn’t get it out. It took me until my early 20s to finally accept my stutter, and move beyond the social anx...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2022
2 points

The best thing you can do is to work on your self-confidence and self-esteem. You can try multiple things, cognitive behavioral therapy, hypnotherapy, self-affirmations, etc. You will become more at...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindfulness & Breathing
postr/StutterMar 3, 2022
17 points

Stuttering and my confidence.

Stuttering and my confidence. I am a 24 year old man from the Netherlands and have been stuttering for as long as I can remember, some periods more than others. I went to a doctor about it when I was...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & CareerHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2022
3 points

If I'm meeting a teacher/professor for the first time, I find it helpful to self-disclose and be upfront but nonchalant. Something along the lines of, "Hey, I stutter, so it takes a little longer for ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2022
2 points

Sadly, they'll never truly be able to understand completely, but you can certainly talk to them and discuss it. Being open about it might actually have a positive effect and cause you to be more fluen...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2022
1 points

0:90 I have a mindset that I stutter on these words and anxiety makes it more worse :( Sometimes I can able to talk fine and sometimes I just don't want to talk, just want to get sleep or stay out...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment