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commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2021
8 points

I'm 21. Until a couple of years ago, I was very conscious of my stutter. I was scared to speak up and all. Two years ago, I finally opened up and spoke to my sister. I told her everything, how I feel...

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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2021
2 points

Yes, they won’t reject you because of your stutter. This goes for presentations and job interviews. I stuttered in my job interview 1-2 weeks back. I experienced a few blocks (serious ones) and then r...

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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2021
2 points

I always think about the audience , fear of embarrassment, humiliation etc. My stuttering comes whenever I think about all these, rest of the time talking to myself or to my family ,I don't stutter a...

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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2021
1 points

I didn't realize I stuttered until high school when someone told me what it was. It was just how I've always talked, and no one had ever given me any flack about it as a kid. I found that my stutter o...

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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2021
3 points

Alright, that helps a bit. What is it you find hard to accept about your stutter? :) What do you think accepting it would involve? And why do you want to accept it?...

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Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2021
7 points

It does affect me a lot mentally when I stutter more, and puts a damper on my mental health.. I’m working on accepting it but, it’s still hard. Ultimate goal is to overcome it completely and I think I...

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commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2021
10 points

Congratulations!! Keep in mind though that stuttering isn’t a bad thing — when we let our stutters negatively affect us, that’s when it’s a bad thing! We can’t always help how much we stutter and that...

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commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2021
2 points

Thank you so much for your kind words. I relate to what you said I feel bad and weak when I hide away from challenges. One of my teachers knows about my stutter because in the first day of school the...

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commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2021
19 points

In my opinion you shouldnt be too happy that you stuttered less, you should be happy that you were brave enough and did communicate successfully even with stutter. The path you are taking is dangerous...

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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2021
2 points

Thanks for your reply! I actually do see my stutter as part of my identity, and I don't think that's a bad thing. I believe it's possible for something to be an important part of who you are without i...

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commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2021
2 points

Well, my psychotherapist has helped me accept it as a part of me and that there's nothing wrong with me. I grew up often believing there was something wrong with the way I talked. But, it just happens...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2021
2 points

Awesome tip! It’s so easy to get caught up in the “negatives” but there’s so much more things in life to be grateful for. Thank you for the encouragement ❣️...

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commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2021
2 points

You’re absolutely right. I can’t change who I am but I can change my perception of this situation. It honestly makes me feel so much better when I tell people “I stutter, please be patient” I’m not su...

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commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2021
1 points

Take care mate! I'm 40 and I can promise you: it will get better - you will care less about it. There is so many great things in live to be grateful for but we were given this trait which can shadow s...

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commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2021
1 points

I stutter sometimes But I have improved dramatically over the few years. Some of what helped me was: Taking a full breath before speaking, always speak while exhaling (outhaling), don't always feel ba...

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commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2021
2 points

You summed up the stuttering experience very well. I don't know how old you are, but at around age 19 I overcame my stutter so I witnessed all levels of school, work, social life etc being miserable. ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2021
5 points

I have a tip for you that has helped me alot. Just accept that you are a person who stutters and you deserve to live too. Then the next step would be being brave. Just be brave about representing your...

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commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2021
3 points

Hi, I'm a college student too, and I stutter. The first two years or so were quite hard for me. I even dropped one year and I was quite ready to quit everything. It was hard, but I didn't, and today I...

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commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2021
1 points

Yes, i have been learning to also accept my stutter and work to modify it. fluency shouldnt be the goal all the tine...

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commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2021
3 points

Managing all the time sounds exhausting. I'd rather get to a place where I'm done managing and have the skills and comfort to Ely my speech just **be**...

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