You’re absolutely right. I can’t change who I am but I can change my perception of this situation. It honestly makes me feel so much better when I tell people “I stutter, please be patient” I’m not sure why I feel the need to hide it and rather, be silent. The avoidance is only making my stammering worse. My dad made me feel really ashamed when I started stuttering. I’m very happy that your son has a parent that understands him and creates a safe space for conversation. Your encouragement will do wonders for him