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commentr/StutterAug 4, 2021
2 points

That TLJ speech impediment wasn't a real stutter though, I believe. I mean, I've personally never stuttered like that or even heard anyone stutter like that. Even if it was, there are some reason of u...

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commentr/StutterAug 4, 2021
1 points

Ya, I’ve come to the opinion that everyone in the restaurant you will never see again so why should you care what they think of you and if they do judge you why should you give them the time of day an...

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postr/StutterAug 4, 2021
12 points

Has anyone done landmark forum?

Has anyone done landmark forum? Did the forum about 10 years ago when I was 29-30 years old. It was amazing all the things you learn or that are brought to your attention. I realized there how much st...

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commentr/StutterAug 4, 2021
8 points

You must realize that stuttering is caused from tension you create from trying not to stutter. It’s cruel because stuttering is just trying not to stutter. Once you accept this and quit trying to “not...

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commentr/StutterAug 4, 2021
1 points

Joe Biden did not consider himself still a stutterer until his campaign told him he should. We need real inspiration of someone who openly accepts their stutter instead of a man who was so ashamed of...

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commentr/StutterAug 4, 2021
2 points

Yes, it's hard! But just know that avoiding stuttering will only make it worse. The best is to voluntary stutter, learn to accept it, and still order what you want. I wasted a few years doing the oppo...

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commentr/StutterAug 4, 2021
1 points

>Learn to get past your shame and let yourself stutter. What if you had no anxiety, worry, or I would say, read this: [https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/oq6wc3/and\_the\_stuttering\_just\_...

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commentr/StutterAug 4, 2021
5 points

You’ll get used to it son and it wont be painful. With time you will accept it and realize all this negativity about stuttering is just your head messing with you....

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commentr/StutterAug 3, 2021
2 points

I’m 19 and I have mildly improved my stuttering, but vastly improved how I feel by consciously accepting that I stutter, and I reject dwelling on any negative thoughts about it. Stuttering is kind of ...

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commentr/StutterAug 3, 2021
2 points

It’s very tough and the obstacles we go through to avoid speaking situations is so tiresome. We stutter because we try to be normal speakers and we are not. We fear the we may mess up which is in fact...

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commentr/StutterAug 3, 2021
2 points

Sometimes trying to hide it makes it worse. Have you ever seen the shirt that says I s-s-stutter? It puts it out in the open and once you see that it’s ok to stutter it won’t hurt as much and then ove...

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commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
3 points

Own your stutter is to do whatever you want to do regardless if you stutter or not I know it is easier said than done , and I still didn’t own my stutter, I still get times where I just want it all t...

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commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
10 points

what do you mean by own your stutter, I do know i have it and i accept it but sometimes I just wanna stop talking forever because it’s very embarrassing , but sometimes i get this random confidence bo...

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commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
1 points

Definitely, I agree!!!! It takes a whole life journey to accept, but it's worth it. Btw, judging by your name, are you Lithuanian by any chance :D?...

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commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
2 points

That's also a much healthier approach than "fuck it, I don't care" like in one of the other comments. There's no use ignoring and pretending not have negative feelings. Everyone has them for one reaso...

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commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
2 points

Yes, possibly, especially if you "crave" fluency. I think it changes once u realise that you don't own anyone fluency, my friend....

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commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
5 points

To be honest, no. If there was, yeah, cool, would make it a lil bit easier. I personally got used to it, so doesn't really change anything, acceptance and confidence is the key. Simple as that. And tb...

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postr/StutterAug 1, 2021
25 points

I want to date someone who stutters

I want to date someone who stutters Hello! Long story short, i want to date someone who stutters and i just want her to feel safe around me. I really care about the things she says, not how she says t...

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commentr/StutterAug 1, 2021
6 points

I just turned 15 this month. And I also just got into a biking accident. When I went down, I just blacked out. Just like that, if I didn’t wear my helmet, I wouldn’t be here today. So think of it like...

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commentr/StutterAug 1, 2021
7 points

14 is a rough age. I'm really sorry you're having a bad go of it. IDK what your speech therapy experience has been. The speech therapy I had in school didn't do shit. The professional therapy I had i...

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