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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2023
2 points

I can relate due being lawyer that stutters sometimes (stuttered as a kid and stutter went away, but came back when I was 18 years old), but over the time I found that mental cue of "slow your speech ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2023
3 points

what I mean is they know I stutter but only a little and I'm afraid I'll stutter super hard on a certain word....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2023
3 points

>My class never heard me stutter super bad and I want it to stay that way I understand from stuttering that the more we want **(1) fluency and (2) to avoid stuttering**, the more we *stop articula...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 27, 2023
9 points

stress about tomorrow

stress about tomorrow Hello, I'm 15M and tomorrow I have a presentation French and I'm stressed since its we have to improvise, thats the point of the exercise. I know there is a word I will stutter r...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2023
1 points

I have social anxiety because of my stutter and because of my social anxiety I developed anxiety, and now that I developed anxiety I have depression. This has happened over my lifetime despite seeing ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 27, 2023
8 points

therapist

therapist Hello, I'm 15M and I've decided om going to get a regular therapist so NOT speech therapist just a regular one since my stutter appeared after some trauma and I don't stutter at all when I'm...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindfulness & Breathing+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2023
2 points

From what I've read, academic literature supports the concept that anticipatory anxiety (also called 'intrusive predictive thoughts and feelings') bring about **confusion** in PWS: * especially in Ad...

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Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2023
1 points

>How do I get rid of block anticipation? The main reason is anticipation. So I need some advice on anticipation. This [comment](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/110c37i/comment/j88bc14/?u...

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Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterFeb 27, 2023
10 points

how do I get rid of block anticipation?

how do I get rid of block anticipation? Hello, when I'm alone I don't block but infront of people I do and the main reason is anticipation. I struggle with words that have vowels as the first letter l...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2023
3 points

From personal experience, stuttering in the workplace can be daunting. you want to seem knowledgeable, confident, and friendly, but the stutter can make it come across as though you aren’t. That adds...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2023
3 points

I know you might not be looking for an answer to anything on r/rant but just want to rant which makes sense. So I’m sharing as much for me as for you. I have a speech disfluency too but I’m sure it’...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2023
3 points

Don't give up. I stuttered from age 4-5 until 70! My stuttering was caused by my reaction to an abusive childhood. Though not all stutterers were emotionally triggered, all stutterers suffer from anx...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2023
1 points

I hope you are getting enough rest. You mentioned being fatigued. Is that because you're immersed in your studies in Japan, having to learn a new language and culture while pursuing your higher educat...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentOnset & Life-Stage Changes
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2023
3 points

Don't stress about blocking in class. You're going to block...so what? By all means continue to work on fluency as you desire. But don't sit unrealistic expectations. You're a stutterer. You're goin...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterFeb 25, 2023
6 points

stress

stress Hello, I'm making a little progress with my stutter but I'm really stressed out. It's weekend now but suddenly I'm stressed out that I might block in class. I don't know why I'm so stressed abo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2023
1 points

Great story! I’m assuming you’re Christian. Me too. I’m a 25 year-old man. I actually began stuttering around 21 years old. I believe it was a combination of social confusion and emotional sensitivi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2023
1 points

I’m sorry you feel that way. I think taking a step back from pursuing and charming potential dates is a good idea, but not for the reason you think. Trying too hard doesn’t work for most men when it c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2023
2 points

You being young is a factor. Rejection is not just about the person who got rejected. There are young girls and women who won’t date you simply because they don’t want to date yet. I’m not saying you ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2023
2 points

Hey very encouraging story. If you’re willing to share, can you please list a few underlying beliefs that you corrected during therapy, and how that influenced the way you feel in social situations? ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2023
1 points

I think majority of people that stutter tends to have social anxiety when in a social environment we might have the biggest confident and ambitious to do anything but when it's time to speak and expre...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception