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postr/StutterMay 20, 2023
18 points

how do you guys meet girls with a stutter?

how do you guys meet girls with a stutter? I'm early 30s now and have been with a few girls in my late teens & 20s. I'm a goodlooking inshape guy but I never was able to approach due to the fact t...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceFeared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2023
3 points

It feels like the quick panic and surprise throws me off to the point where I sometimes need to remember where I was going with this. It's like someone accidentally throwing a ball at you and it surp...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2023
3 points

Once I realized I could say my name without a problem anymore I also realized that half the time the moment they ask for my name I stutter on the first word..like "my." But I'm not really stuttering ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesExperiential AssociationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2023
3 points

I feel you're right. I feel this vicious anxiety loop is something a lot of people dont want to talk about. I feel its the biggest factor in why we stutter. With me, I may have started due to low se...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 19, 2023
8 points

Open discussion: How did we create stuttering anticipation?

Open discussion: How did we create stuttering anticipation? Let's consider a hypothetical feared letter /P/. How can people who stutter (PWS) create stuttering anticipation on the letter /P/? Based o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2023
3 points

Yup. Exactly the same as me. Its basically an intense fear of failing speech. This intense fear for failing speech, is ironically what makes us stutter or "fail speech". It's this anxiety loop we get...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2023
2 points

Hey man, Yeah, everything you just said is what I more or less experience. It’s almost like I know when the stutter is coming, and every time I go to have a conversation with someone, I get really ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2023
5 points

I have this, too. To me, if you can speak fluently when alone, or to your pet(s), but not around humans, it's a fear problem, with stuttering being a symptom of that. I speak fluently when al...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAnticipating StutteringExperiential Association
postr/StutterMay 18, 2023
23 points

Do you take job rejection personally?

Do you take job rejection personally? Is it hard not to take job rejection personally when you have stuttered in an interview? Everyone always says 'Don't take it personally' but how can you not when...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & CareerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2023
8 points

Same man, I too get blocks when caught off guard, but I also get them when i build up tension for what's about to come. Its weird, I have realized its incredibly important to be calm in all situations...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Mindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2023
11 points

I have this same condition when i get severe block if in a sudden situation Sometimes remaining calm and staring at the person without trying to say or forced say works for me but it gets awkward some...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2023
1 points

This is so incredibly accurate. I can almost hear the voice in my head before I start stuttering telling me that I’m about to stutter lol....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2023
1 points

I wouldn't recommend what I do, but I'll put it out there since it works for me. The more I prep, the more I worry about it. The more I try to perfect everything, and get in my own head about every d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2023
2 points

Yeah it sounds shady and prob gets worse when ur nervous. Just openly disclose ur stutter as the first thing u say...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2023
4 points

I agree man, this mindset is something I've been trying to work on for a while now. What's really making me struggle is the feeling that no matter what, I won't be able to get the word out. There has ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Frustration & AngerAnticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2023
1 points

This tip isn't just for stutterers. First, a rehearsal with a friend, and film it and watch it. And then another one in front of someone you kinda fears? Like for example if you have a strict father.....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Preparation & RehearsalOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 17, 2023
4 points

Has anyone tried Pregabalin/Gabapentin for stuttering?

Has anyone tried Pregabalin/Gabapentin for stuttering? They are both used off-label to treat anxiety, so some of you may have experience with them. And did it help?...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Helpful Med OutcomesAnticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2023
3 points

This is a loaded question lol. IMO you need to address the anxiety before you address the stuttering. Feel free to DM me, or check some of my post history....

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAdvice Requests
postr/StutterMay 17, 2023
6 points

How were you able to overcome stuttering and anxiety

How were you able to overcome stuttering and anxiety [deleted]...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2023
15 points

I stutter less and after understanding where (most) of my stutter stems from, it's down to the judgement/views other people have on me. So when im speaking to someone and it's a quiet environment,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment