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commentr/StutterNov 7, 2022
2 points

Not hiding it is a big step! It takes a lot of the fear out of speaking, and the fear tends to make the blocks worse. One of my things is that I'm still carrying a lot of internal shame about my disfl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2022
1 points

Thank you. Actually, I can also be very indirect so it’s possible she was referring to that habit. Also, while at that job, (separate from it), I discovered the key to gaining more fluency (don’t h...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2022
4 points

If that's possible for you, try to get in touch with Vivian Sisskin. She offers online group sessions and is focused on eliminating avoidances IOT speak freely without tension. You work on both the em...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Seeking TherapyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2022
8 points

Stuttering therapy can be really great if you find someone who specializes in stuttering. Most speech therapists don't, and a good number of them will say they work with stuttering. That's not the sam...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2022
9 points

When I was 16 and in school I had a severe stutter. I did not dare to pick up the phone or talk to people. At the end of the school year I had to do a book presentation for my exam and I was nervous t...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Seeking TherapyFluency TechniquesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2022
2 points

I actually listed mine as a strength in my job interview as it forces me to come out of my comfort zone and the interviewer really liked it and congratulated me for doing what not a lot would....

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2022
1 points

I’ve found myself thinking about this from time to time. But then, like another commenter mentioned, you’re dealt a hand that you play with. Like everyone else. I logged in after a while today and Re...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2022
2 points

Respect, dont let it be a crutch. Once i realized that, things got better. Be the best you can be day in and day out. I did 8 years in the military and if i can do it any of you can achieve things. W...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2022
4 points

I would I have 90% of my speech under control but I still stutter. I’ve never been ashamed of it even as a kid i always spoke alot and my family never cared either. So my day to day was normal and eve...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2022
5 points

I do my best not to let stuttering hold me back. It might be an extra challenge for me to do the things I want to do, but when I achieve it, I feel even more accomplished. My stutter is only a small f...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2022
2 points

I've viewed at as a super efficient friend filter. If I was fluent, I wouldn't want to associate with those who aren't open minded enough to accept the possibility of someone who stutters being infe...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2022
2 points

>few years I overcame my stuttering and very rearly I'll find difficulties with speaking. What I did was to go to a psychologist, I did therapy few months, we unraveled what was causing me Wow th...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2022
3 points

Everytime stutter hold me back, it's easier for everyone to just isolate yourself and avoid speaking, but you will be tired of it Someday, cause it get you Sad and even more Sad, you need to do someth...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2022
2 points

Stuttering does not get easier over the years, you start to understand yourself and accept yourself which makes it easier to deal with stuttering! :)...

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Acceptance & PrideOnset & Life-Stage Changes
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2022
1 points

Me too. I was also fed the same concept that I will outgrow it. Though I somehow did mitigate it to some extent, but the blockages still stay. I don't remember much about how bad my stuttering was whe...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationHelplessness & AgencyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2022
3 points

If I don't use a technique I still stutter, on every letter (severe stutterer). If I use a technique then: * visualizing that I'm alone - then I don't stutter * using the DF-method - then I don't stu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2022
1 points

As long as I can remember. I believe there's nothing to grow out of. There are better things in life to focus on....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2022
4 points

I am 62 years old and never outgrew my stutter. I learned to live with it. It’s sad that people do judge you on when you stutter. I personally don’t think speech therapist helped me. My 31 year old s...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationAcceptance & PrideFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2022
6 points

I still consider myself a stutterer but I have 95% control of my speech, it’s smooth, pleasant, “normal” and I even speak more clearly than before. This is after living for 3 decades with a disabli...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2022
0 points

I 100% feel you on that. U gotta be grateful tho! At least you can utter words. There are people who can't even move their mouths....

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