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commentr/StutterAug 21, 2017
1 points

First I spent (and still do spend) a good deal of time each day speaking fluently, such as reading out loud when nobody is around or talking to myself (driving in the car is a good time). At first I e...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Experiential AssociationAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2017
1 points

> If you're aware that you stutter, how come you didn't go see a speech therapist instead? Actually I did when I was 14 years old (didn't see worth writing). Some therapist suggested interesting w...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & Avoidance
Therapy ExperiencesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterAug 20, 2017
4 points

Stuttering in particular situations?

Stuttering in particular situations? Hello there, I'm a 24 old male, living in Turkey, stuttering since 5 years old. Can't really remember how it's started, but my parents always say (or claim) that ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages+1 more
postr/StutterAug 20, 2017
5 points

Stuttering reading material

Stuttering reading material Hi, I have been stuttering for as long as I can remember. I have had periods in my life when I have had a new job felt confident and have not shuttered for about 6 months. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2017
3 points

Hey! I just got out of a warehouse job to go to school. At first it was really tough for me and I felt like people thought I was stupid simply because I wasn't able to say some words. Some still do. B...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 17, 2017
2 points

My session was on 21 July, the effects still pretty good, nobody jokes with me anymore and new people I met didnt recognized me as a stutter, and when I said that I was a stutter, they didn't believe ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2017
1 points

I'm only a little more than 6 months into being stutter free. It didn't happen to me until I was 36. I don't identify myself as a stutterer, but I don't have the confidence of someone who never stutte...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2017
1 points

Because of my stutter; I tend to be more of a listener and stay pretty quiet unless I know you personally. It's hard, but easy friends are a dime a dozen and don't last. Finding a true, good friend is...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2017
1 points

I definitely still identify as a stutterer although I rarely stutter any more, at least not outwardly. I find that I still have to manage my speech to stay reasonably fluent. Over the years I've learn...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2017
2 points

It's crazy. I can sometimes say a sentence perfectly when I'm alone but with an audience I fuck it up immediately...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentEnvironmental Triggers
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2017
1 points

The thought of moving to a new place, meeting new people, and have new experiences can cause a lot of anxiety. First off, try not to worry so much about moving to the dorm. Now, everyone's experience ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2017
3 points

At work its the worst. I'm supposed to be able to approach customers and talk on the phone a lot; but nobody has really questioned it yet after two years, which is nice for now haha....

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2017
6 points

You know, there ARE more ppl who are like your bf. Believe me. I was a covert stutterer for years. But step by step I started to stutter more openly. I still have things I won't do bc of my stutter....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterAug 14, 2017
15 points

I feel helpless.

I feel helpless. (i'm ranting) I'm so done having my stutter hold me back. Started stuttering in kindergarten, my school district set me up with a school counselor/speech therapist to help me work on...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Helplessness & AgencyAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2017
2 points

Or when I'm with a girl I let her order first and then I say "same as her" and I just pay for both of them , I can talk to people I know normally most of the time but cent order or ask questions to st...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2017
1 points

Never tried the sign language thing lol. Usually I just order something basic or point at it or tell my friend to order for me ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2017
4 points

You can always practice "no habla ingles" everywhere else. I've played the sign language game so many times. Carrying around a pen and notebook. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2017
4 points

That's why I prefer to order at home with apps. No speaking required ,unless the stupid delivery boy can't find my house. SMH...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 11, 2017
1 points

This is how I've "hidden" my stutter from family. Unfortunately it's led to feelings of nobody listening to me because, according to them, "you never get to the point". The last two years I've decid...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2017
1 points

You are saying he should make special accommodations, which is essentially hiding. I agree with the message about different routes to the same place. I agree that I doubt his whole future rides on t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking