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commentr/StutterOct 5, 2023
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The mental stress from all the anticipatory thoughts is exhausting. Lately, I've been struggling with words as trivial as on, in, also but when I'm on my own, I speak with so much confidence and fluen...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterOct 5, 2023
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I've learnt that people are generally much less judgmental than we think. While we may be embarrassed or feel humiliated by our stutter, others may not notice it and even if they do, they are acceptin...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterOct 5, 2023
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Feeling a little nervous

Feeling a little nervous Received a call for an interview. I've to travel quite far. I've not travelled that far and I don't mind doing it but my speech blocks make me anxious and turns me into a diff...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2023
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I feel intimidated not just around authority figures but also around those who appear to be confident and posh (maybe it's my insecurity at work). There are days where I would feel great and confident...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Power Dynamics & IntimidationAnxiety & Social JudgmentAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2023
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Same. I get nervous and experience more blocks when i'm speaking to like my boss or other people at my job who are higher positions than myself. Also, the few times I have been pulled over by police I...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Power Dynamics & IntimidationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2023
1 points

I have a mild stutter. Of course is the fear of stuttering. That is the main though. I am trying to go further like why do I block in those situations in particular and I block less on different ones...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2023
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I do have a hard time asking for things or just asking questions in general, but in my case it's just the fear that i'm going to stutter. How severe is your stutter?...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSeverity & Fluctuation
postr/StutterOct 4, 2023
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¿Do we fear autorithy?

¿Do we fear autorithy? Today I went to a shop to deliver some samples of my business. A nice lady attended me. Everything went good. Not completely fluent because I was nervous but at least 80%. Sud...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterOct 4, 2023
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Hard time asking for

Hard time asking for ¿Do you have a hard time asking for something? I do. Whenever I need to ask for something I can feel the struggle and the anxiety on my throat and body. I dunno why. It can be b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2023
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I've been here! I swear it gets better 🙂 32 with a job in marketing with regular presentations. You and your stutter will adjust to each other, and usually, people really don't care as much as we thi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentAnticipating Stuttering+1 more
postr/StutterOct 4, 2023
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I think I’m at the end of my rope

I think I’m at the end of my rope I’ve been feeling extra hope less lately. Like my life is just a shit show of social anxiety and not being able to speak like a normal person. I’m only 21 but someti...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2023
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As another reply mentioned, I gave a speech in the morning assembly once. I could, in some way, listen to myself speak through the speakers in real time and I didn't stutter at all. I gave a speech t...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Public SpeakingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2023
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I think you have to accept your situation and know that there are a looot of people who have biigger problems than stuttering but they just accept that life is not always fair and deal with what they ...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2023
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Being relaxed also helps. And it’s hard, as stuttering has its own stress....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 4, 2023
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Just did the worst presentation ever

Just did the worst presentation ever Hello im 15M and in the 10th grade. We had make a presentation for French (not my first language) because I was sick I only had two days for it but I thought i sti...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2023
1 points

It requires money and I'm financially down at the moment. I did go to a therapist when I was little but that didn't work out as expected. Now, I can't even open up to my family as they're all extrover...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Access & AffordabilityTherapy ExperiencesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2023
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I understand how you feel. I'm 29 now and I was in your position at around... 18-20. I was terrified to get my permit/drivers license. Terrified to get a job. The only reason it happened was because m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentAdvice Requests+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2023
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I don’t stutter so I can’t speak to that. But I’ve read the responses here and there’s a lot of good things to consider and use. Regardless of how your stuttering improves, you are taking the first im...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Advice RequestsAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2023
1 points

Your stuttering is a direct result of anxiety. Deal with the anxiety in whatever way possible. Your vocal cords are muscle. Learn to control the muscle. When you are tense these lock. Therapy does wor...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy
postr/StutterOct 3, 2023
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Anyone Else with an Acquired Stutter?

Anyone Else with an Acquired Stutter? I have autism, and started noticing slight blocks with my speech around age 18-22. As I got older, the blocks got worse, and I started having trouble with other ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Trauma & PsychologicalSeverity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more