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commentr/StutterJun 6, 2022
4 points

Really didn't write it to fight or something. but you seem to be on a high horse and everyone who is struggling is to be blamed. >So stutters shouldn't have good lives, or if you are successful yo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2022
5 points

It's not gatekeeping. I'm not against mild stutterers and i know there lives are definitely not ideal. but i have seen various posts getting deleted and people being obnoxious about how they just didn...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterJun 6, 2022
-3 points

what defines a stutter or severe stutter? whether you accept it or not? some people might not have a 'severe' stutter but are more mentally impacted than others ​ so stop gatekeeping stu...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2022
8 points

I wanted to post this for so long but I thought it'd just get deleted. I also noticed another thing that when people with severe stutter post something anout their life being really bad and they're co...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJun 5, 2022
9 points

I really wish there was a clinical diagnosis/difference between "stuttering" and "severe stuttering" / Stutter Rant

I really wish there was a clinical diagnosis/difference between "stuttering" and "severe stuttering" / Stutter Rant I'm sorry but when I hear someone say "millions of people stutter" I can't help myse...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2022
1 points

The first step of overcoming your stutter is to be aware that it is something that you can overcome. I’ve been stuttering for as long as I can remember. There were indeed times that I wanted to give u...

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commentr/StutterJun 5, 2022
3 points

The only fear I really share with you is the genetically inherited stutter, because there is a great chance I've got it the same way even though my father and grandpa has/had a different kind of speec...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Genetic & Family FactorsHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2022
1 points

I believe we all can have those things. Im 20 and I plan to have a beautiful wife with amazing kids. I believe we all have a responsibility as stutterers for inspire those just like us. We must “pick ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2022
2 points

I get that. I had a hard time in my teens. If I could tell my 16 year old self something it would be that you're not something to perfect and your stutter is a feature of you. Don't let anyone tell yo...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2022
9 points

That's just not true. It's like saying the only person who can cure my broken arm is someone who's broken their arm. We often think of our stutter as something that we own and have exclusive knowled...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / NeurodiversityHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2022
-5 points

Only person who can counsel me is another stutterer. Otherwise they have no idea what they’re talking about....

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Advice RequestsIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJun 5, 2022
18 points

Grinds my gears when I hear “You don’t have any responsibilities because you don’t have kids, family etc.” Yeah, I wish I could have those responsibilities, but the universe does not let me. It’s their choice to have those responsibilities anyway. I don’t have a choice.

Grinds my gears when I hear “You don’t have any responsibilities because you don’t have kids, family etc.” Yeah, I wish I could have those responsibilities, but the universe does not let me. It’s thei...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 4, 2022
2 points

I don't know how old you are. I'm 31. Severe stutterer since age 5. I thought no girl should be attracted to me because of how broken I am. But then in my mid 20s and especially at 30 girls became int...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionDating & RomanceHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 4, 2022
1 points

Honestly, I don't know why any girl would be interested in me. I try to make up for it by being the best I can in every other area, but my stutter just makes me so pathetic....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 4, 2022
2 points

We are our own biggest enemies. Lets say she likes you, do you even accept? In the past I didn't. I've turned beautiful girls down because I believed that they deserved better. Someone who wasn't brok...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2022
2 points

Yes, problem solvers + fast thinkers = we could be indestructible haha all jokes aside, it takes having special skills to think hard about constructing a sentence and saying something completely diffe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringExperiential AssociationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2022
4 points

I think maybe it’s because you feel like you don’t have permission to talk about someone else, or quote a movie, etc. Because maybe you grew up feeling like it was rude to talk about other people. Or ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Propositionality & WeightIdentity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2022
5 points

I feel like the average person cannot understand what we go through. One can imagine being blind, or deaf, but stuttering doesn't make sense to those unaffected. We have each other, but for many of u...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 31, 2022
1 points

You can work what every jon you want. Look at me in my work i have 3-4 meeting everyday with few people at same time, i have meetings with people offside the work and sometimes i need to use english ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMay 31, 2022
19 points

Guys do u ever feel that u have stuck in life cus of stutter?

Guys do u ever feel that u have stuck in life cus of stutter? ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception