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commentr/StutterSep 25, 2023
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okay. first of all you must understand what causes you to stutter, I am sure you do not have an answer to this so I will explain it the best I can There are some people who have a speech disord...

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commentr/StutterSep 25, 2023
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I did it for 2 years.... i still stutter, but i lost the fear of speaking and now i can speak in almost every situation ( still scared of speakimg i front of big audience, but thats something everyone...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterSep 25, 2023
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Practical Tips for/of Severe Stutterers

Practical Tips for/of Severe Stutterers My definition of severe stuttering: I stutter even when I'm alone most of the time while uttering long sentences, time-pressuring social situations worsen it to...

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commentr/StutterSep 25, 2023
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okay. first of all you must understand what causes you to stutter, I am sure you do not have an answer to this so I will explain it the best I can There are some people who have a speech disorder, th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAcceptance & PrideAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2023
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Personally, find that I need to prepare a bit but when I prepare excessively I become too focused on what I should say and makes it makes me more focused on my speech. I always try to engage in conver...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2023
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I did prepare days ahead actually and it still made me stutter for some reason. My brain simply wants to change words from time to time funny enough. Though now I know that i should stick to the origi...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterSep 24, 2023
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My dream job is to a performer(Actor) but I’m so afraid that I can’t

My dream job is to a performer(Actor) but I’m so afraid that I can’t I've had desires to become an actor ever since I was a young child. I am very seriously considering pursuing this career now that I...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2023
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Any personal talk, funny banter? Or are you just strictly business with all of em I ask because maybe you should trying opening up to people you like there. Things might change...

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postr/StutterSep 24, 2023
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advice me

advice me i am a from india , i stutter but it was not that of a big deal in my school days but as i am now in my first year of collage(IIT) now this is affecting me so much in socialisng and also tak...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2023
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I often go for the “I was wondering if there is any chance you could please … “. People don’t realise in my head I’m not actually polite it’s just sometimes easier to say more words...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2023
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I tend to use politeness forms too to avoid starting with certain words i know i block on so yea :)...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2023
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My stutter comes and goes. Have had selective mutism since forever! Hahah. SM itself is quite rare. I have only come across one other person in my life who has it....

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2023
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After graduation ive been at home for a few months now and my stuttering has gotten so bad that im incredibly scared of going back to social situations. I have blocks so its really hard to get the wor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2023
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we avoid stuttering so that not to be weird, speaking loud is even weirder xD...

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postr/StutterSep 24, 2023
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Just realized - my stuttering made me super polite

Just realized - my stuttering made me super polite I went to the market today, and wanted a busy salesperson to get me something. I tryed to go like "get me some X", missed the moment, switched in my ...

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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2023
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Idk if it qualifies as selective mutism, but when I have a bad stuttering day, I will use the notes app and just type things if I’m getting food out or getting something quick from a store....

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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2023
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We've been friends for years, but I still avoid opening up to her because I just don't like her watching me struggle, even though she's okay with me stuttering all the time. Yesterday, after the misu...

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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2023
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Relate so much, took quite a while to accept I'll just be misunderstood alot. Occasionally struggle over it, but don't lose sleep about it anymore, or it's rare that it'll happen...

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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2023
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Right there with you too(also 23 and missed so many milestone). Abused substances for quite a while, stopped all the bad ones, but still smoke weed at night daily and during free time. Hate existing, ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2023
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Other comments have pointed out effective strategies in the long term but just incase, I thought I can share another short term technique with you. I just attended a graduate student government body ...

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