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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
4 points

Yeah, it’s out there. Make it yours. I waited for my life to begin and watched it pass by while I waited. So I went out and made it happen. My favorite slogan is crass, but direct and poignant - “g...

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postr/StutterApr 21, 2023
8 points

Keep your head up

Keep your head up I scroll this thread frequently but rarely comment, I see a lot posts about people’s negative feelings about our condition. Im here to say our stutter doesn’t define us, it’s 2023 we...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
7 points

Never try to conceal ur stutter put it in your boss face or hold it over his head I hate to use this word but technically we have a disability it would be illegal for them to not hire us as a fellow s...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
2 points

I have a stutter and am pretty happy with my life on the whole, and the parts I'm unhappy about aren't related to stuttering. I love my job and interview very well. So it's absolutely possible. That ...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
4 points

To your point, I think stuttering really helps people develop their EQ. There’s another guy in my office that stutters and *humble brag* we’re probably the two most liked guys in the office....

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
4 points

This is very cool! I've noticed the approachability resulting from increased vulnerability as well. A few years ago, I managed to build up the courage to actually mention my stutter in introductions, ...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
2 points

User Experience by way of Graphic Design is where I landed, though I may be an atypical stutterer. Anything I can memorize exactly I can say fluidly, more or less, as long as I modify the vowel-conson...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
2 points

>I know you may think people think things about us, and some of them do, but to hell with them. I know this is way easier said than done, but at some point I started viewing my stutter as a free a...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
8 points

It'll get better. I go between almost 100% fluency to choppier speech when I'm stressed or burnt out. It's a cycle and the more you think about it the more it feels like it's happening. Try to "accep...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
2 points

Great response! So, if I understood correctly these are your helpful and unhelpful beliefs/attitudes: Unhelpful beliefs/attitudes: * overthinking Helpful beliefs/attitudes: * speaking mindlessly b...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
10 points

Everything in life has good and bad points. Yes, stuttering is often a pain in the butt that causes frustration and angst. But it also has advantages. My past partners have been attracted to me partly...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
3 points

Wow that is really inspirational. I have never seen stuttering in a positive way. So it is really interesting to see how it might have been positive for you in some factors :)...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2023
13 points

My stutter changes from bad to not so bad then bad again throughout the years. I got into IT almost by accident way back when there wasn't a formal path into IT. But, partly because of my stutter maki...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2023
2 points

I tap, a finger or a foot to get going. I also forced myself to be confident and literally stared down anyone who chuckled. Speaking in front of 200+ people isn’t scary anymore, I had to get comfo...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2023
3 points

I'm sorry to hear that you're going through such a difficult time. It's important to know that you are not alone and that there are people who care about you and want to support you. Please don't give...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2023
2 points

In my experience, even though it works from time to time for me, speaking mindlessly occasionally helps me with my stutter. When I say mindlessly, I mean just blurting out what you want to say, withou...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2023
3 points

I'm really, really flexible and tolerant, always trying to live in peace and mutual understanding with others. But once every couple years, it happens that somebody manages to f*** my brain up so much...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2023
7 points

I've been there. I have no quick fix for you or any magical trick. I can only say I keep at it and I'm much happier where I am today. I'm pretty proud of myself given where I was many years ago. I kno...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2023
7 points

I had a night where I didn’t stutter at all even if I tried then went to a house party. I talked to everyone but I was really awkward cause I had nothing to really talk about but I just wanted to hear...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2023
6 points

I know, but I still stutter around my best friends, my exes, my family, etc., I. situations where I'm otherwise totally relaxed. Thinking back, I was also able to achieve a similar level of fluency wh...

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