Yeah, it’s out there. Make it yours. I waited for my life to begin and watched it pass by while I waited. So I went out and made it happen. My favorite slogan is crass, but direct and poignant - “grab life by the horns and skullf*ck it.” I’ve got a great career, 5x the confidence I had when I was your age, married and have 2 kids. Fun fact- my son was just born today!