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postr/StutterOct 27, 2023
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I can't take this anymore

I can't take this anymore I am 21 years old and I've been stuttering since birth. I can't live with it anymore. I didn't finish high school because of my speech. I avoid contact with people. For the p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2023
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I was very talkative but I learned not to talk much. I don’t know what jobs you applied but I said very little during interviews....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
postr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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What would you do in my shoes? (Life advice) (theres a lot to read so if you dont feel like reading a lot dont view it)

What would you do in my shoes? (Life advice) (theres a lot to read so if you dont feel like reading a lot dont view it) This is a lot to read so if you dont feel like reading you dont have to and i ki...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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>*"What clinical interventions could we develop with the goal of targeting the dysfunction in the Nucleus Accumbens?"* **In my opinion:** * Changing one’s perception of how to cope with rewarding...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Neurological & BrainStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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Sadly, i feel the same, but often i have to use "broken southerner engrish" because sometimes improper slang is just easier to get out. Other times I'll takeba different approach however, and go with...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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How can I improve my speech

How can I improve my speech Very weirdly, I don’t stutter around people I am comfortable around…so I know it’s is possible for me to talk “normally”. And certainly do not when talking to myself or re...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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One of the first things they taught us was to never ever apologize for your stutter. It’s something I use to do all the time. Will you have to think about me you been doing something one way for x amo...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterOct 25, 2023
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Any book recommendations? Please tell me the book and what its about and how it helped you.

Any book recommendations? Please tell me the book and what its about and how it helped you. I have a blockage where I want to get a word out but my head or brain just feels paralyzed and i cant get it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2023
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So, I'm less than an hr outside of NYC the land of I'M WALKIN HERE... I found going out with people who drink l, as someone who doesn't drink, is an acceptable way to be loud. drunk people get loud a...

Meds & SubstancesCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Strategic Swearing/CursingPropositionality & Weight+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2023
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That s nice, i think you can find a middle between singing and the way you talk usually. If you slow your speech just a little, it could help already. Recently someone told me i talk a bit like Orels...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Situational VariabilityAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2023
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I'd say the next step for you is, identify the block (definitely talk a bit slowly like, all the time), resolve it and _dont_ change the word. In the start it'll come out with a bit of a stammer. We h...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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I will go study Law. I got scared I couldn't stand the court of law and defend clients in high school. I might become promiscuous. There are lots of ladies I crushed on but couldn't make solid moves ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
postr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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Lately, i am feeling like Harvey specter in interviews!

Lately, i am feeling like Harvey specter in interviews! Omega 3 + Magnesium My stutter and brain function have improved 100x. >Anxiety is gone. Before I had very bad anxiety, whenever I had to wa...

Causes & VariabilityMeds & SubstancesAnticipation & Avoidance
Situational VariabilityHelpful Med OutcomesStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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Relax, we all know how you feel. I once prepared myself to presentation with another person, I made that presentation, knew word by word what to say, rehearsed it many times, learned by heart, and tha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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I'll try by all means to own it, but I've been hiding it all this time. It's like building a new character basically but pretty sure I can do it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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Maybe she does know, I'll see to it that I tell her and find out what's really going on. If she wants an opening to make fun of me or she genuinely doesn't know. With the strangers thing, sometimes yo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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Self help is the only way that can make it happen Stuttering tends to go away with if the reason behind it doesnot persists Many people have cure it by their own some by doing nothing and some by dai...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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I mean if random strangers can detect your stutter when asking for directions, odds are the girl you’ve been with for a year definitely knows. Yet the laughing thing is different problem. I had one gi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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I’m glad you’re going to confess. I’m 30 and have stuttered all my life. I find it best in relationships to just be honest from the start. Hiding it only makes it worse for my stutter because my anxie...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
postr/StutterOct 24, 2023
1 points

Two 15 minutes presentation this week

Two 15 minutes presentation this week I have to give two 15 minute presentation in this week , and i stutter but nobody in class no i Stutter,i have given 5 minutes presentation before, i am able to h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic LifeDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more