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postr/StutterJun 4, 2019
103 points

My work phone is caked in dust. Just the way I like it. I avoid this thing like the plague.

My work phone is caked in dust. Just the way I like it. I avoid this thing like the plague. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2019
1 points

I don’t have what you described, so I might not be the best one to help you with, but I will certainly try! What I do to get over my stutter (which is medium-sometimes severe) is I talk to myself and...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
postr/StutterMay 30, 2019
2 points

Working at a call center with a stutter?

Working at a call center with a stutter? This was my second job and it literally involves communicating with people over the phone all day. I was in training for 3 weeks for this job and hated every s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2019
1 points

I have gotten the "can I ask you a question?" a lot. I understand that some people can't help themselves and feel the need to talk. The people who are just rude, are annoying. I do appreciate people w...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2019
1 points

Well I'm your opposite I guess. I haven't had any experiences in my adult life where they base my intelligence on my stutter. Hasn't happened since middle school is my guess. I'm in law enforcement t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2019
2 points

Both are dopinergenic disorders. Clomipramine, one of the old gold standards for OCD (it's a tricyclic antidepressant which has more side effects than SSRI antidepressants) is actually one of the few ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anticipating StutteringHiding & ConcealmentNeurological & Brain
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2019
1 points

Hi OP, I am also a 19 y/o male life long stutterer who primarily has blocks. The thing that helps me the most is to stay relaxed and confident. Obviously this is easier said then done, but it can be...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2019
1 points

I usually do not VC with strangers, or when I do I make sure it's a group and I don't have to be speaking to maintain a good ambience. But I also feel it's a good way to listen to other people speak a...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
postr/StutterMay 25, 2019
11 points

Any stutters on discord?

Any stutters on discord? Hey im a stutter myself I like to play games on pc specially the divison 2 and i just dont talk to normal people as much cause i have this subconscious feeling that they thin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2019
1 points

been dealing with this all my life I’m 23 now but not sure if this is a tip but my stutter made me very self-conscious/introverted (even though I’m not it forced me to be at times) and how I’ve been a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
postr/StutterMay 25, 2019
12 points

Leaving my comfort zone

Leaving my comfort zone Hey everybody, I just applied for a job as a waiter, and I'm pretty scared. I have my interview this week, and I'm typically pretty good at prolonged one-on-one interaction, b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2019
3 points

Omg I’ve been getting the blocks too!! I usually just have my regular stutter that on a good day, doesn’t give me too much anxiety. But I just started a new job and I’ve been blocking when using the t...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2019
7 points

I have had heavy blocks too. (Still have them but they are lighter and easy to keep under control) And ordering fast food is still my biggest fear. I mostly soften the first letter. For example instea...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages+1 more
postr/StutterMay 25, 2019
25 points

It has been really bad this past week...

It has been really bad this past week... I'm seriously blocking so much.. i can't order fast food anymore, talk to cashiers or coworkers without stopping mid sentence and have my face and body clench ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2019
2 points

Thanks for the comments and kind words. I did communicate that during the interview, but of course any rational person would be concerned if the person they're interviewing is completely unable to spe...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2019
2 points

yeah, good and bad times come and go, but during interview, just try to focus in delivering what you want to deliver and keep applying to jobs, you know it (stuttering) keeps getting worse if we hide...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterMay 22, 2019
33 points

It’s been a terrible week.

It’s been a terrible week. I had an in-person job interview with a company I’ve always wanted to work for after passing the first-round phone interview. Before the interview even begun, I informed my ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentTrauma & PsychologicalSadness & Hopelessness+3 more
postr/StutterMay 21, 2019
13 points

That's my story, first time sharing this with anyone

That's my story, first time sharing this with anyone I've been stuttering for as long as I can remember, I was severely bullied and made fun of from grade 1 till grade 8, which caused me a lot of psyc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentTrauma & Psychological+3 more
postr/StutterMay 21, 2019
5 points

Job seekers

Job seekers Don't ever get a job for BPO.. it's stupid. Like I am right now. 2 years contract and I'm freaking out...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2019
3 points

This used to happen to me in school all the time. When somebody looks confused after meeting me I usually do an over-the-top voluntary stutter with obvious repetitions to make it clear I have a speech...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHiding & Concealment