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commentr/StutterJul 9, 2017
1 points

Hello doc! *high fives* I hope you stick with it too. No doubt we've survived some of the hardest challenges in our lives, and it would be a shame if a speech impediment made all this pointless. There...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2017
2 points

Thank you. While VERY FUCKING DEPRESSING LOL, your perspective is right on point and illustrates my crisis perfectly. And you're a lawyer, even better...we live in rather similar minefields where our ...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2017
6 points

Damn i can relate to this.. Wish i had some advice to give but I've gotten to a point that i hate everybody and keep conversation so minimal where all i ever say are 1 word sentences. Everytime i stut...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJul 2, 2017
25 points

The dark side of stuttering that no one talks about.

The dark side of stuttering that no one talks about. Self medicating to get rid of it. I'm not sure if there are others out there, probably is but I turned into an alcoholic/drug addict for many year...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Helpful Med OutcomesHiding & Concealment+2 more
postr/StutterJul 1, 2017
0 points

Anyone else feel suicidal with is given from you stutter

Anyone else feel suicidal with is given from you stutter She is the most amazing girl you could ever meet so great I couldn't list them all without crying.Bc she is as I said in love with my best frie...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressSadness & HopelessnessShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterJul 1, 2017
18 points

I've almost eliminated it out of my life by not giving a fuck about what other people think about me.

I've almost eliminated it out of my life by not giving a fuck about what other people think about me. A lot of what this sub preaches is to stop caring what other people think about you, learning to a...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2017
3 points

Thanks, but everyone in my circle makes about the same or more. It just makes me boil with blood that I can't have a single conversation without sound like a blithering idiot. ...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2017
2 points

I'll be 21 in a week and a half. I've had the stutter since I was probably 14. No one in my family stutters that I know of so they are very insensitive about it. It makes me feel horrible because I ca...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Genetic & Family FactorsShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2017
4 points

my mom grew up with a stutter and her mom always told her to slow down, so my mom never told to slow down or stuff like that because she knew how demeaning it felt at times, but occasionally friends r...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2017
3 points

I always try to remember this. It's hard because whenever I talk to my family members, they say things like, "You're talking to fast slow down." "Come out with it already." Or they'll mock me. I've ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2017
3 points

hey me too. my stutter is really severe. I'm dreading starting college in the fall. I feel like shit every time I have to speak to someone. then afterwards I just replay the experience in my head over...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityTherapy & Professional
Shame & EmbarrassmentSeverity & FluctuationSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2017
2 points

I felt that my stutter overtime got a lot worse. it's hard to even introduce myself. i feel so embarrassed when I have to meet a family friend or a friend's family member, it gets awkward after i atte...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentAnticipating Stuttering
postr/StutterJun 20, 2017
5 points

Help

Help Has anyone here ever felt like people are feeling sorry for you? Like they go out of their way to be extra polite in front of you just to avoid hurting your feelings? I'm sure some of this is ju...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & EmpathyShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJun 19, 2017
10 points

Relationships

Relationships I've had a stutter my whole life, nothing too severe. Usually my speech is pretty good, but I notice it heavily impacts how I interact with women. I'm generally (not always) a little awk...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2017
9 points

Sleep and make it to the next day as quickly as possible. Or some good ol' self-loathing if that fails....

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2017
1 points

I read it online at various websites. It does make sense, but I don't want people to know I have a stutter, it's embarrassing. I did try a speech therapist once, but didn't really give it a proper go...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Shame & EmbarrassmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2017
1 points

You don't have to ask for or even accept pity. The point is to take ownership of the situation. People closest to you grow accustomed to your stutter and have an unspoken understanding, but it's still...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2017
1 points

Accepting the fact that you stutter doesn't mean you're okay with letting it take hold of your life. It's simply a first step of acknowledging you have a speech disorder in the first place. We all see...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2017
1 points

Okay thanks man. But I just feel like if the band is broken there's no return. And if everybody knows I feel like every time I open my mouth everybody smiles at me and let's me speak and so on. I don'...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJun 9, 2017
3 points

First time poster and some "problems" for a stutterer

First time poster and some "problems" for a stutterer Hi, I've stuttered my hole life. Got a little better since my childhood. When I was a child I only had the "repetitions-stuttering" (li-li-like th...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Repetitions & ProlongationsBlocks & StoppagesShame & Embarrassment+1 more