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commentr/StutterAug 6, 2023
3 points

Yes. this was the exact case with me. Went through about 2 years of speech therapy across many different therapists. None of them helped. What did help was being comfortable. I’m 16 and still have a s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2023
12 points

If anyone has any questions they can ask me. I am not trying to disrupt the group and its ideologies. I just want to help. I am not selling anything or I just know how shitty it feels. There were time...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2023
1 points

Writing about stuttering can take ages because experiences are varied. My mistake right from primary school was hiding my stutter and appearing to everyone as a normal speaker. I was made the senior p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2023
6 points

Dude why so angry. Maybe don't be so dismissive of other people's experiences. My stutter has been a major burden on my life too. I'm just saying sometimes it seemed to to be a bit disarming when talk...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2023
1 points

I talk about it openly which helps a lot..especially at work. Once i didn’t try to mask it, I felt more comfortable in speaking situation and my fluency became much much better. That’s just me though...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2023
1 points

Yes 😭 I used to use a different name in starbucks and would avoid meeting new people. I've had people laugh and say things like 'did you forget your name?' as they don't realise that I have a stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2023
4 points

You are right bro. It never goes away but with time you learn to deal with it and accept it. That makes life a lot easier....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2023
5 points

I still stutter. But I took a radical approach to deal with it. I put myself in speaking situations ALL the time. I volunteered to read a sermon at church. (Terrifying) Joined 2 toastmaster clubs. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & RehearsalVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2023
6 points

For me personally, once I stopped caring what people thought of my stutter and started showing people the real me they didn’t care. I have a good circle of friends, some recent and some built on years...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2023
1 points

I always heard the same thing, and I use to stutter alone, and it was very defeating hearing others did not. I feel there are two parts to stuttering, the internal and the external. I always felt when...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2023
8 points

You are generally correct. I’ve found that people of quality genuinely respect and value you even with a speech impediment. Anyone else doesn't merit my interest. Choose your friends carefully. There...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2023
7 points

I am 45 and know stuttering weighed me down the past 4 decades. Couldn't date till I was 24 and stayed away from relationships I really desired for fear I would be rejected. I'm married now to a grea...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2023
6 points

The memes serves dual purpose. For someone like you who is trying to fix/reduce your stutter, it reminds you to accept you are stutterer. Acceptance is the first stage to fix it. For those who hav...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideResearch & Resources
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2023
5 points

I see my stutter as a negative 99% of the time too. I have a zero tolerance approach for people laughing at me not with me. My severity varies alot from mild to severe. It's very tied to my anxiety....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2023
33 points

Before meeting my wife. I think it sometimes helped me. Especially out in a public social setting. So many women have a natural defence mechanism up when talking to new guys and I think my stutter som...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2023
2 points

You can't do much to change it. Even with therapy. Joe Biden still stutters. Concentrate on the quality of your words and don't give a damn whether you stutter while saying them. Anyone that's not pat...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2023
2 points

Why fret over something out of your control? Do not wonder how to be a good person, simply be one :)...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2023
2 points

That's great and I'm glad you took the time to empathize with this person. I kinda feel like a small town is an advantage because I know everyone and they all know me so no surprises lol. My father is...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2023
3 points

I’m 39 this year and felt like that; seriously, you need to get out of that mindset and make sure you enjoy yourself. The only one stopping you, is you....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2023
3 points

Yes I have. I’m 52 now, started stuttering in the 4th grade and overcame it to about 90% in my early 40s and it slowly died out completely in my mid to late 40s....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride